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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

I started to post in Off Topic, but since so much is WRONG right now, I am sure at least some of it is Stretch's fault. My financial situation is certainly not helped by his non support.

So just to be safe, I will post here, in my comfort zone.

I hurt. I am tired of hurting. I can't get comfortable. I fell 3 weeks ago and broke my ankle, injured my back, and I am still black and blue and green. I can't tie my shoes without my back screaming at me. I can't reach my feet to put on clothes.

I can't drive. Getting in and out of cars is a freakin' mess. I have pulled more of my hair out mangling this move.

I can't shave my legs. Not that it matters, but it freakin MATTERS!!

I limp, to protect my ankle, and that makes the whole side of my body hurt. The hip, the back, my foot and my nerve all down my leg.

And now I am starting to have panic attacks about the stairs. I wake up at night and my mind is reliving my ankle rolling and I get cold sweats and nausea. If I have to go outside and down those steps I get sweaty and sick feeling. I haven't admitted this to anyone. It feels kinda crazy. Like that SPOT is holding onto BAD VIBES.

I forget/ignore that I am a broken mess... right up until I move, try to stand up, get dressed, take a shower. People ask, and I smile, say "I am better. Healing." Instead, I want to cry, and scream.

I have not wrapped a single gift. I do have a few items (thank the internet) but the fact that the holiday is almost HERE is freaking me out. NO stocking stuffers... you know, that stuff you wander around and buy? Wandering- not on my list of things I can do right now.

I am feeling sorry for myself and I don't like it. I don't feel like I have anywhere I can GO with these feelings either. Because everyone who asks "what can I do?" and everyone who is DOING so MUCH to help me really shouldn't see me whine and be a baby.

I am dependent on people for damn near everything (rides to work, carrying things, carpooling my kids, running errands. And I DON"T DO DEPENDENT very well. Ever. But especially since DDAY.

I have missed a shit ton of work.

Then the optimistic guilt trip. I have a job. I have friends and family that have willingly and graciously stepped up and helped out. I will heal (Lord, please!!)

I can delegate the stocking buying just like everything else.

Who cares if my legs are shaved? I can stand to lose some hair getting into cars.

I don't like pain, but it doesn't control me. It is midlevel pain most of the time, and only REALLY painful if I over do... or move.

At least I don't have to suffer while married to someone who would act like my clumsiness was his problem. And then I just don't feel optimistic any more.


I am still depressed and whiny. ARGGGGGGH!

HUGS? please.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Big hugs, honey. I am kinda having a down on myself day today as well. I'm financially struggling and taking on a new job with more daycare costs, I'm too busy to date but emotionally ready to so I feel lonely and overwhelmed and my house is a disaster. My baby son has pneumonia and I have to make his specialist appointments which are now overdue. I feel like a loser. If you need to whine, I am here to listen and I definitely understand.

Jessica


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((CG)))) (((Jessica)))

CG, I think a broken ankle is a very valid reason to whine a little.at Christmas time, for you. I know it is hard to let others help you, but believe me, they are glad to doit and you are making them feel better.


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((Jessica)))

I hope your baby gets well soon!! DS9 is recovering from strep. Certainly when the little ones are not feeling well, everything goes a little haywire.

I think the holidays are hard under the best of circumstances, and this year is not the BEST.

thanks for the ear/shoulder/understanding.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

thanks Pentup.


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FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((HUGS))))

I wish I could come

A) whack the stairs with a broomstick where you fell & chase away the bad mojo

B) put a big crockpot of something yummy on to cook for you

C) show up with goodies & treats to put in your stockings

D) pop open a bottle of vino & toast together a Christmas filled with freedom and new possibilities

(((MoRE HUGS)))


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Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

NG, A) made me laugh, and I have exactly that image fixed in my mind. I just might have an easier go of those stairs tomorrow.

The rest of the kindness made me a little teary, in a good way. Thank you.


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FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

((((((cg)))))))
((((((jessica))))))

Anyone else needing them, come and get 'em.
((((((((((hugs))))))))))


You can call me NIK

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-Hayley Williams


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Awwww...(((((((cg)))))))

Wish I could wrap some gifts and get those stocking stuffers for you!

Hugs for you too, Jessica.
(((((((Jessica)))))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

((((caregiver))))
((((Jessica))))

Cg, Your member name says it all. You care for everyone all the time. Now it's time for the caregiver to receive care. I'm glad you have people to help you. Please take them up on their offers. If you lived near me, I would be right over to help. I hope you feel better soon.


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dmari
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((((cg9000))))) (((((cg9000))))) (((((cg9000)))))
I'm so so sorry you are hurting right now ... physically and emotionally. Don't dismiss your panic attacks. My cousin went through something similar and needed to rely on xanax to change her dressings for her foot wound. Just even thinking about it would trigger a panic attack. I am so sorry and I wish there was something I could do. It breaks my heart when someone from D/S is hurting Oh and no need for the optimistic guilt to kick in ... allow yourself to fully feel the pain and it's ok to feel like life sucks right now because it kind of does. Take care of yourself as best as you can.


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Officially divorced ... SOON!

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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Go down the stairs backwards. They'll never see it coming!!


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

Thank you, NIK.

Thank you, tesla.

Thank you, jo2love.

Not for the first time, I wish SI was a real place.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

dmari, thanks for getting what "optimistic guilt" is!

@badmed, thanks, but backwards is HOW I fell, so um, yeah, maybe not.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

I sometimes wish that we all lived near each other and we could help each other out, commiserate, laugh, pop popcorn and have a SI united meeting once a month at the local watering hole. We truly are the only ones who understand and get it. We get how co dependent we once were and how the thought of depending on someone else makes us a little gun shy and crazy. We get how nutsy our lives have been after being blown up by infidelity and how much we are struggling or have struggled to get us and our lives back. We get what it is like to deal with the crazy drama llamas that are our exs and their new sparkly life in Unicorn Fart Land. We are the ones who know what it is to be the parent to hurt and confused children. We are the ones who have become the survivors.


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Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
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NotFixable
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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

((CG)) Whine all you want to because we all understand! I think all of your gripes are perfectly legit. The holidays are already tough with this crap we are going through emotionally, and adding injury to that is an added level you certainly don't deserve. You delegate everything you can. You have people willing to help you. When you are back to yourself and can help them back, you will. Keep your head up! We are going to make it through!!


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DD #1 03/12
DD #2 11/20/13
Status: Separated and planning D
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Nowhere left to go but up!


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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((((((Hugs)))))))))))

And xanax.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

PS ((((CG huge hugs)))) sorry for the t/j, I am mad at the thought of your ex thinking that your clumsiness was somehow a negative reflection of him. Seriously, that really ticked me off.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

(((caregiver)))


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
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FirstLoveGone
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

I'm sending healing mojo to you as I type.

I totally understand where you are coming from. It sucks having to depend on people for such basic necessities.

But please know that you don't have to be Super Woman. If the stockings aren't stuffed or the gifts aren't wrapped - it will be OK.

If you overdo it, then your healing will suffer,and you will end up extending your misery.

Hugs to you.


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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

((((Caregiver)))) My Mom had a measure for how important things are: If it isn't something that people will remember and talk about in 100 years, then it isn't worth worrying about and making yourself sick over. So don't stress about things you can't get done.

Taking care of you and healing are the most important things. You are lucky to have offers of help, so accept graciously. As others have said, you are Caregiver, now it's your turn to receive the care. We would all be there for you, too, if we were near enough. Good mojo and vibes being sent to you to replace the bad ones.

Cry and scream all you want to us. We're here for you. Hugs to you, too, ((Jessica))).


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Default  Posted: 3:41 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Big hugs for you my friend.

I'd be down for NGs JuJu shooing away ceremony.

Sending you healing vibes.

(((((((((((((CG))))))))))))))))


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JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 5:39 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Good morning! I hope you feel better today. Happy Thursday!


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


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JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 5:43 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

And thanks everyone for the secondary hugs. I'm sorry that I semi threadjacked; it was not my intention. I feel a little better now that I got some of it out, so thank you.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 6:18 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Jessica, you did NOT jack my thread! Group hugs are even better. Thanks for checking on me this morning. I hope we both have a good day.

To all the over night (for me) juju chasing and healing vibes and energy, love and kindness- thank you!!!

I wish I had a nickel for every time I had been told I don't have to be Wonder Woman. And that THAT voice would drown out the one that says I am lazy and not up to par.

I am working today, so I will try to stay positive and careful and not over do. I will carry SI in my heart.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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ninebark
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Default  Posted: 6:18 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Caregiver9000, I so understand what you are going through.

Three years ago I was taking my son to his swimming lessons when I missed the bottom step on my stairs. I fell, twisted my right ankle, righted myself and broke my left leg. I ended up having to go into surgery to repair it and was off for quite a while. This happened right before Christmas and my ex and were trying to R at the time.

He worked out of the province so most of the time I was alone trying to take care of things, trying to Christmas shop and taking care of an 10 year old. It wasn't easy and it is so hard to be dependent on others.


So know you are heard, understood and hugged. It is frustrating but it will get better and will be stronger for it. In my case my broken leg lead to a new job so it worked out for the best. I hope it works out for you as well in the end.

Try not to be so hard on yourself and have a nice Christmas. (((hugs)))

[This message edited by ninebark at 6:18 AM, December 19th (Thursday)]


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WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

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Default  Posted: 7:14 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

(((caregiver)))

Sendingyou some good vibes and letting you know that you can get through this.


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

((((((CG))))))))

There couldn't be a worse time of the year to be laid up. It's hard enough to avoid feelings of inadequacy and stress even when you are fully functioning!

I also wish I could magically appear at your doorstep to help out. I hate that one of my favorite peeps is hurting.

More hugs...

((((CG))))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

(((((Caregiver9000)))))


Me!
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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Nothing worse than losing a wheel.

(((caregiver)))

Hang in there, and continue to eat the elephant one bite at a time.


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

((CG))

vent/whine away you've earned it. that's alot.

don't worry about presents. they are just things. celebrate christmas on 12/29 or something if you need to.

just focus on you. don't add stress. people understand!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

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welcome14
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

((cg))! i feel ya, broke my left shoulder 3 weeks ago. yup, getting in n out of cars is a nightmare. i am also lefthanded, and i was supposed to start a new job 2 days after my fall. luckily they cant fire me even though i will be missing my first 6 weeks. sigh.I also know how u feel about that dang step. i get a little sick feeling when i go down mine also. good news is, we have people that care about us and are willing to show us their love, we just have to allow ourselves to accept and remember that it makes them happy...i can be stubborn also...hope u are better today, and don't over do it!


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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, December 19th (Thursday)

Big hug to you Care, you are such a caring person, I hope you can feel the care coming your way over the wire. I hope you are feeling better about everything soon.

((((Care))))


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
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FWS 55
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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

ninebark, I can imagine that fall and I grimace every time I read it!! I think stairs should be outlawed...

wb, you are one of my favorite peeps too! Thanks for the love.


Hang in there, and continue to eat the elephant one bite at a time.

Good advice.

welcome14, your wing, my wheel. I am also left handed, so if we did a two legged race type bonding, I could manage the left side if you can take up the right?? Misery loves company and all that, so thanks for chiming in.

To EVERYONE who took the time to hug, reassure, send care and good vibes, I really really feel the love. Thank you for the permission to whine, the validation that this does kinda suck, and that it will pass, and I will survive.

I am moved, and supported by the responses. This is one of those threads I want to print and carry around so I can read it any day I feel down.

I feel like my best friends have the most unusual names....

Thank you!!!!!!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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welcome14
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

excellent idea! we could almost be one whole person! glad u sound a little better today...one day at a time! (and i dont have to clean the house...lol)


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

Sending belated hugs ((((cg))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

DMW, hugs are never too late!!

thanks for sending them on.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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rainagain
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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

Oh! Just saw this.

((((((((Care))))))))

My dd broke her leg years ago and she sounded just like you (yes you're an 8 th grader).

But really the panic and pain was the same - she said I helped her through it but all I did / said was the usual mama things. You know that routine, so tell it to yourself.

As far as gifts let this make you feel better. I. Have. Not. Started. Yet. And I have two ankles.

I get the dependent thing so try to think of it this way - being injured like this as a single working mom is a really big deal. And you are still a single working mom who is now severely - thank god temporarily - injured. So really, you are actually kicking one -legged ass which is twice as good as the usual.

Love ya!


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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

(((caregiver9000)))


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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

Get well soon...((((cg))))))


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

CG, this is just a *blip* on the radar.
You got this.....and it will all turn out just fine.


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In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

rain, honey, is this supposed to make me feel better?

As far as gifts let this make you feel better. I. Have. Not. Started. Yet. And I have two ankles.

Great. Now I have to panic for both of us!!!

I do kinda like the kicking ass one legged thought though.

And just like a child, I want to be told "it's going to be ok, or "just fine" or whatever version of cheering on y'all got for me. So again,
Thanks SI sisters.

I feel empowered by your confidence. or maybe it is the drugs...


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, December 19th (Thursday)

(((caregiver)))

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