I have to ask:
Are you 100% sure this is/was an "Employee Only...No Spouses Allowed" party?
This seems odd to me - that spouses would not be invited to A HOLIDAY PARTY.
In my opinion -- If OW is there; your WH needs to find an acceptable "excuse" to not attend; if you cannot be there!Me BS 59
Married 19 years
D-Day Nov 3, 2005
Child: Adopted Daughter 21 College Student now
I can understand being alone; but I hate being with someone and feeling lonely.