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Happy  Posted: 10:59 AM, December 22nd (Sunday)

That's
146,926,800 heartbeats!


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2855 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Wonderful!


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3663 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
Kodi
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Member # 16237
Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Congratulations!!!!

Posts: 1350 | Registered: Sep 2007
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Congratulations! That is something to be very proud of. Lovely picture, too. Very happy for you, you are strong and brave. Woot woot!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Wow! Congrats


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2708 | Registered: Jan 2010
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Congrats!!! That is awesome!!!

Posts: 35898 | Registered: Mar 2011
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Awesome!!! Keep being the hope!!!


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2632 | Registered: Aug 2012
deeplysad
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Member # 16590
Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Good for you!!! Congratulations!!!!


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3245 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
PurpleBirch
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Member # 39170
Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

That's great! Congratulations


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
thebighurt
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Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Congratulations! HUGE accomplishment!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2386 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Thanks for sharing. Congratulations!


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10374 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Gottagetthrough
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Member # 27325
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Fantastic!!! That is quite an accomplishment :-)

Posts: 1401 | Registered: Jan 2010
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

YAY!!!!!

Way to go!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52635 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

..congrats...

I'd post that b/w Orson Wells clapping sequence if I knew how!

..where's Hufi Pufi when you need him??

smy

[This message edited by somanyyears at 8:21 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)]


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
lynnm1947
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Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

You rock!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7284 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
movingforward777
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Member # 6850
Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, December 22nd (Sunday)

Awesome!!! You should be very proud of yourself.....HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4845 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, December 23rd (Monday)

Awesome!!!!!

I remember when 5 days seemed impossible,and then somehow I made 5 years. What????

Congratulations. Keep it up.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2781 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
cinnamongurl
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Member # 37879
Default  Posted: 1:03 AM, December 25th (Wednesday)

Fantastic! Congrats!!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. Many ddays, last one late 8/12 "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 513 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:13 AM, December 25th (Wednesday)

Awesome!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15414 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
spond
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Member # 41686
Default  Posted: 6:15 AM, December 26th (Thursday)

That's Awesome News!!! Keep it up!


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

Posts: 413 | Registered: Dec 2013
Kelany
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Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, December 26th (Thursday)

That is fantastic!!!! Way to go, I'm so happy and proud of you!


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, December 26th (Thursday)


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8460 | Registered: Apr 2008
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, December 26th (Thursday)

That's wonderful!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4609 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
rainagain
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Member # 14917
Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, December 26th (Thursday)

Yes! So happy for you!


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1298 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
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