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imaf
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Default  Posted: 2:39 AM, December 24th (Tuesday)

Just wandering is this possible??


Left him because I didnīt like his other girlfriend.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Jan 2011
nomistakeaboutit
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Member # 36857
Default  Posted: 4:22 AM, December 24th (Tuesday)

I'm sure it's possible, but......with friends like this....

So I searched through all his personal affairs and found out he had been cheating all along. I had no strength, I was a walking zombie, didn't eat, didn't sleep.


...who needs enemies?

Be smart. Stay away from this man who has betrayed you many times. You're free of him now. He's no good for you, and you know it.

Best to you. Merry Christmas!

NMAI


Me: BH 58.........Her: WW 45
DD: 8..........DS: 5
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

Posts: 953 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
imaf
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Member # 30916
Default  Posted: 5:41 AM, December 24th (Tuesday)

Thanks no mistake!
Donīt worry no intention of going down that road. I have a terrible sense of pride, which is not always a good thing, but in this occasion it is.

I was just wandering if it is possible, and what are the real intentions behind WXSO trying to be friendly..... ego, grass not being greener, honest intention to be friendly.....???

Happy XMAS !!

[This message edited by imaf at 5:51 AM, December 24th (Tuesday)]


Left him because I didnīt like his other girlfriend.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Jan 2011
nomistakeaboutit
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Member # 36857
Default  Posted: 7:11 AM, December 24th (Tuesday)


...maybe they are trying to relieve their guilt. If you become friends, then what they didn't maybe isn't so by after all. Apps well that ends well? That's my guess.


Me: BH 58.........Her: WW 45
DD: 8..........DS: 5
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

Posts: 953 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
nomistakeaboutit
Member
Member # 36857
Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, December 24th (Tuesday)

...and, Merry Christmas to you, too!


Me: BH 58.........Her: WW 45
DD: 8..........DS: 5
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

Posts: 953 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
MakingLemonade
Member
Member # 41143
Default  Posted: 8:48 AM, December 24th (Tuesday)

Real intentions of XWSO is to prove to the world and themselves what they have done can't be so bad if even the person who you chronically betrayed, devaluing their health and emotional well being, can overlook it. (Remind myself of it all the time.) More game playing/image projecting which I refuse to oblige. Not healthy for me. Not healthy for them. It would be a different story if there was true remorse but from my experience if they've gotten this far, it ain't gonna happen.


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

Posts: 168 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southern US
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