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SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, December 25th (Wednesday)

Wondering if anyone is on the blog

Posts: 171 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Illinois
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, December 25th (Wednesday)

If so do you do things without your shoes on cause I can't because of my disability I can not I'm trying to find ways to get things done when there's no ones here to put my shoes on

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, December 25th (Wednesday)

I don't do shoes.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9856 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, December 25th (Wednesday)

I get the emails, but am too slovenly to do the actual housework. I've tried, but it only lasts 3 days before I give up.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 768 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 11:50 PM, December 25th (Wednesday)

Yeah I keep giving up too but since I live in a small place and I'm always home I need something to do im in the decluttering phase lol

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hitbyatruck
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, December 25th (Wednesday)

I think flylady is great minus the shoes and all the emails.

I get more out of reading the site, minus the emails. I get way more done when I use a plan like flylady.


Married 1998, 2 kids
D-day3/27/09,he left 5/23/09
WH wants to rebuild 3/21/10
He moved back in 9/25/10,
Dec, 2011-finally putting it all together, H had multiple affairs.
Possible porn addict for 15 yrs.
01/2014- in house separation

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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 4:01 AM, December 26th (Thursday)

Not 'signed up', but do check the site for ideas. The overall concept is a good one, focus on a spot, get a little bit done at a time. (but I'm not into the shoes thing either)

I'm still decluttering, but have also been able to maintain some of the main trouble spots (entry way, kitchen, living room, dining room). Now working on the rest of the house. Biggest problem is that the boys need to cooperate!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, December 26th (Thursday)

I like the lists I see on pinterest that have you do one thing a day over 40 days. After I decluttered, If i can do that one thing a day, it really makes a difference in the long run.


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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Kelany
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, December 26th (Thursday)

I'm actually using the Sidetracked Home Executive. Fly lady sent me way too much stuff when I tried it years ago. I like the chore system that SHE uses a lot, especially since I have 5 kids.

Plus, I hate shoes.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, December 26th (Thursday)

My kids won't get with the program either, the reason I can't do anything without my shoes is because I have club foot, congenital hip dysplysia and siatic nerve palsy and I can't walk without assitance with my shoes and a cane I'm suppose to be in a wheelchair but I'm stubborn. My husband puts my shoes on because I'm not suppose to bend

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