Member # 40488
| Posted: 10:01 PM, December 26th (Thursday)|
So today I was major triggering. Two years ago he was with the bitch everyday while I was at home with DD. Today he went to work while I stay at home with DD.
All day I remembered how they met at the busstop in the am then had lunch and met at night again. He did that all well with her until New Year's Eve. I know where and what they did based on emails text and bank statement. He still tells me today that they weren't involved. It was just by chance. I went out of town two weeks afterwards which is when they consummated their love. He still denies it was something special. He denies he saw her and if so it was just by chance. I can't take his bullshit after two years.
When do they own up to their actions. I tell him that he chose to be with her. Everyday he left for work and chose her. It was only many months later after I found out that it stopped. Because I called texted and email the bitch.
I am tired Of his bullshit... So tired of it all.
Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore
Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 36654
| Posted: 6:52 AM, December 27th (Friday)|
It does get old, especially after 2yrs of them denying what really happened. You can't move on until he is honest with you and with himself. Are you in IC? Is WH in IC? Until you get all the facts and he admits to what he did, you will be in limbo. I know. BTDT. My WH#2 only admits to what I actually know and rugsweeps the rest. Until he is able to own his LTA and seek help for his addictions we will be in limbo with our R. It is a horrible place to be. I really feel for what you are going through. (((HUGS)))
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.
Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas