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Feb 8, 2011
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Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, December 29th (Sunday)

Just finished texting with a friend/confidante of my ww. I guess it was a BIG mistake to break off a fun and promising new relationship back in June to give her another chance.

Turns out that there was more than one affair, and that she saw me as just a sperm donor. An that she had cheated in virtually every previous relationship. (I knew of one.)

It's well and truly over now. We ended it (again)on Christmas Day, and tonight when I dropped of my son at her place, there was another vehicle in the driveway. I now know not to believe a single word that that woman ever tells me ever again.


D-Day see username
and maybe March 11, 11
ME: 45 yr old BH
Her: 40 yr old WW
3 kids
married 11 years
Who is this woman in my house?!

Posts: 717 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: canada
nekorb
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Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, December 29th (Sunday)

I'm so sorry.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
Crushed1
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Member # 6449
Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, December 30th (Monday)

So sorry (((Feb))) I'm GLAD that you've seen the truth of her and are moving on.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9745 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
jb3199
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Member # 27673
Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, December 30th (Monday)

Feb!

Say that it isn't so!

Sorry, friend. It sucks beyond definition. Why can't they learn to be honest after all this time?

The only positive that I can offer you, is that you know what you need to do. You have enough knowledge and experience here to get yourself out of this mess.

Maybe you want to kick yourself for putting yourself in this position once again, but it happens often....regrettably. Some waywards won't change. But you already know this. It is hard not to want to be able to trust our partner again. But if they don't/won't do the hard work, the chance for successful R is pretty slim.

Welcome back. What I am more sorry, is, that you needed to come back. Good luck moving forward.


BH-47
WW-44
2 boys-17 & 20(special needs)
Married 21yrs.(together 27yrs.)

All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary Puckett
D-Day: 9/18/09 D-Day#2: 2/19/10 The Marriage Killer: 6/6/11
Heading for D


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