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wifehad5
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Cool  Posted: 4:22 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

The more mature members might remember the epic NYE Bar threads that Toddc hosted many years ago. If memory serves, we filled up an entire thread that night

This probably won't be that great, and I'll probably fall asleep before 10:00, but let's get started!

Everyone is welcome


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FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I got to start drinking at work. We did a toast at 3 pm with actual full glasses of bubbly, then we got to leave.

I'm sure I'll be popping in and out of this thread tonight, but just in case, let me wish all y'all the happiest of New Years! May 2014 be the year all of us hope it to be!


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Ah yes the 12/31/07 NYE party thread. It rocked.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I'm gonna say Happy New Year now because as of ten minutes from now, I'm off for the rest of the night. Aged pepper steaks, amarone, veggies and macarons, with champagne later, are all calling my name.

I personally had an excellent 2013, but some of you may feel like a friend of my daughter's buddy, who posted on FB: "I want to disembowel 2013 and then chop off its head, just so 2014 will know I'm not fucking around!" Feel free.

A votre santé.

[This message edited by lynnm1947 at 5:10 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)]


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I'm drinking a glass of cheap red wine in a soda glass because all our wine glasses are packed away.

It's pretty yummy either way, and it's creating a nice buzz, even from a soda glass.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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ItHappened2Me2
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

As soon as I figure out how to load pic correctly, I will share the visuals of my libations.

Gonna open a bottle of Sparkling Wine, Some Sparkling White Grape Juice for the kids and have some Shrimp Cocktail!

Happy New Years to all!!!


BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

"I want to disembowel 2013 and then chop off its head, just so 2014 will know I''m not fucking around!"
Hahaha. Seriously, though. 1000x.


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Hi guys and gals! I'll be in and out all night.

I have to get dinner in the oven. Toasted ravioli. We first had them this summer in St. Louis. I'm now addicted.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

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Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Since I am werkin' tonight, let me toast with some carbonated/caffeinated/naturally flavored beverage.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Good evening all...

We're watching movies and eating deli/cheese tray... Homemade of course.

So I'll be popping in and out.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I'm already on the couch and in my pajamas. It's 7:30 here, so I should be asleep in.....15 minutes or so.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I should be asleep in.....15 minutes or so.
Party animal


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I could actually go to sleep myself. Unfortunately I need to pick my brother and cousin up from the bar at 2AM


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2 kids 7&12

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Same here. I was telling LD about all the good music there was going to be on Rockin' Eve (minus Dick Clark, that is just wrong on so many levels), and he said, "Shit, you think we're going to even be up?"


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Just peeking in. Probably won't be back in tonight and definitely won't make it to midnight. H has to be to work at 3AM, so early to bed here.

Drinking a dr pepper right now. Probably have a glass of wine as soon as the two year old drink thief goes to bed.


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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Just back from a long walk and having tea.

Will be having Henkell Trocken + blackberry cocktails with my chips and hummus, ravioli later, and may stay up late.

Hell, I didn't get out of bed until 10:30 this a.m. and that tells you how well I've gotten the hang of this holiday thing.

It's after midnight in the UK, Happy New Year to my Irish, Scottish and Brit peeps!


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Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I'm off to go dancing. See you in 2014.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Here, but sickly. I'm having hot water with lemon and a Vick's chaser.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Awwwww NIK. I feel yo pain. I've had a massive head cold since Christmas night. Boo.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Just for you, Aubrie -


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

That's some good looking soup! Hugs to all sickies. H1N1 going around up here.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 7:07 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)]


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Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Guuuuurl! That soup looks good!


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

It's past midnight here in Scotland so a very Happy Hogmanay and a peaceful, healthy and prosperous 2014 to all S.I. members and especially to my dear S.I. friends across the globe. May we meet or meet again in 2014.

As we say in Scotia 'lang may yer lum reek'


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

*waving at Cass*

A toast to you across the pond my dear! xox

It's not NYE without some Abba.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFrGuyw1V8s


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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MakingLemonade
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Sipping on 2007 Silver Oak cab hanging with my kids watching Twilight Zone and playing games to ring in the New Year.

Hoping those under the weather feel better soon!

Happy New Year, my new SI comrades!


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I am drinking Jäger and Diet Dr. Pepper tonight. At home. Alone. In my PJs.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I had some pink moscato with dinner, because the bottle was already open, and there was only about 1 glassful left in the bottle. Now I'm sitting on the couch with SO, in front of the fire, contemplating if I should open another bottle of wine.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Its stupid cold here and I'm wrapped up in two blankets. QS finally said, "What me to make a fire?" Heck yes!

We're watching movies and drinking "sparkly" juice with the kids.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy new year everyone. I'll be popping in and out all night. I'm about to light a fire outside -it's wicked cold here too - and make s'mores with the kids and Mimosas at midnight.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Fire log on. : )

Nice version of the Auld Lang Syne:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=0U3w_zpiWSE


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year everyone. Toasting to you all from my couch with chardonnay and chex mix! As hard as the holidays are I love New Year's. Thank you all!


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
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DS22, DD19, DS17

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year - home alone with my bottle of wine and, of course, the dogs, one of which is freaking out a bit with the fireworks outside...lol.

I'm supposed to be at a party nearby shortly, but thinking that ain't happening...I don't feel like getting ready. Think I will just stick it out here.

Here's to an amazing 2014.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Watching Modern Family and contemplating a Rum and Coke....

Or maybe just the Coke.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Awww, poor sick sweeties.


Here, I made you a Nyquil-colada:

[This message edited by Jrazz at 9:52 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)]


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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Watching Modern family with my 2 gorgeous cats. Home alone tonight.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Had some pizza with DS16 and DD24(she stopped by on way to party and decided to stay here.

Watching some tv. I have been "catching up" on The Good Wife starting with season 1. I am hooked. Probably work my way through the first half of season 4 by the end of the night.

3.5 hours till midnight here. I wouldn't bet that I am up then.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Thanks for the Nyquil-colada, Razzie.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

"The Good Wife" is fun! I'm watching "When Harry Met Sally" here with kitty, some spaghetti and a warm fire.

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Aww Razzie, you're a doll.

QS has stalled out for the night. Snoozing in the chair next to me. Lightweight.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Holed up in our hotel room at The Driskell in Austin. Didn't pace ourselves this week so we are done. But we can hear all the revelries outside!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

We're all in our PJ's and in the bed... still watching Modern Family.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Getting ready to make some s'mores


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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brokenapart
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year my SI peeps! I was here for the epic 07 thread. :)

A quiet night for me - one child not feeling well who is already in bed - the other is out of town with friends..


me- BS
2 great kids
Divorced & living again.

"Let go or get dragged" - beaner

Life is Good


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Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I'm in bed with my twins and the dog watching Anderson cooper and Kathy griffin.
6 minutes to go. Both girls are still awake.
Doesn't get any better than this.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

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brokenapart
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I forgot about Anderson Cooper! I should have had that on.. I wasn't thrilled with the other 2 shows..


me- BS
2 great kids
Divorced & living again.

"Let go or get dragged" - beaner

Life is Good


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ItHappened2Me2
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

I'm having a good time tonight! My daughter has one of her friends over. They are making cookies and we all (DD, friend, DS and I) just danced around the house!

Just having fun with the kids and watching Big D NYE!

Here's to 2014!!!!!


BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013 - he started up again with the

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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year all!!! I went up and visited my mom, dad and 2 aunts earlier, then left to come home to spend New Years with my DD. My DS is at a party. So, I got stopped by a cop on the way home and he nicely gave me a speeding ticket. Closest I'm getting to a kiss at midnight!

Ok...off to hug my DD. Onwards to 2014!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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brokenapart
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year!!!!!


me- BS
2 great kids
Divorced & living again.

"Let go or get dragged" - beaner

Life is Good


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5454real
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Well, all ready for the party here! Crab, shrimp, stuffed mushrooms, veggies and dip, cheese and crackers, pickle wraps and Rumaki. jack n coke on the rocks with a twist of lemon. Mrs has her favorite wine.

and they all fell asleep about 20 minutes ago. wife son and grandson all sitting on the couch watching TV sound asleep. Can I bring some food?


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year from the Big Blue Nation


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year everyone


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year SI!!!!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year SI!!!!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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isadora
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year!


Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 12 yrs
2 DDs and DSs all under 10
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Happy New Year!!!


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

No West Coasters here yet?

Actually I'm not drinking the hard stuff. Just some chocolate milk.

Happy New Year to my East Coast friends!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:29 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

Oh I'm here. I'm using toothpicks to keep my eyes open, though.

Ironic considering every other night of the year I'm up until 1am.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, December 31st (Tuesday)

About to drop, actually! And the champagne's only 1/2 gone! Welcome to my post-post-Carlsberg years!

Happy 2014, everybody.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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Cool  Posted: 12:02 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy New Year !!!!!!!!(Central Time)
Many blessings to all in 2014 !


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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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Default  Posted: 12:17 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

less than 2 hours for those on the West Coast!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Default  Posted: 12:17 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

West coast here, still awake.....


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

East Coast here, still awake.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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sad12008
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Default  Posted: 12:26 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy New Year, friends!!


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Same to you Sad1


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Default  Posted: 12:33 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

OK -- still can't do pic correctly -- sorry!

[This message edited by ItHappened2Me2 at 12:34 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)]


BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013 - he started up again with the

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:51 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

A day late and a dollar short as usual *sigh* Just home from a long night at work. Drinking some Lambrusco. Happy 2014 peeps


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Default  Posted: 1:00 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Sazzie's in da house!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 1:00 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy New Year Mountain Time Peeps!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Default  Posted: 1:10 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

FF! Are you playing for us tonight?


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Default  Posted: 1:26 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Uh, nope. hard to do from the horizontal position...


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 1:27 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Sheesh! I'm still upright, and I worked all night


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Default  Posted: 1:31 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Yeah, but I'm old.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 1:37 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

That's right! A whole year older than I am


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Default  Posted: 1:45 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 1:46 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

West coaster here! I'm up, but only because I have 5 children ages 6-13 running around and they are making me stay up.

We had three courses of fondue -- cheese around 430, meat around 645, and then chocolate just after we watched the ball drop in NYC. They had a ball with that. Watched Kiki's Delivery Service with some popcorn (how they had room for popcorn is a mystery) and now they are playing hide and seek with flashlights in the darkened house.

Only 20 minutes till I can send them all to bed and go to sleep myself! Yay! (When did I get old? )


BW, SAHM
D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final

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Default  Posted: 1:48 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

12 more minutes. I think I can hang.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 2:00 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Checkin' in from California, we finally made it.

Merry New Year.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Ok, time for bed. Zzzzzzzzzz


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 2:30 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

C'mon FF, help a brudder out. I had two Dr. Peppers tonight at work and probably won't be able to sleep until Thursday.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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Default  Posted: 2:33 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Haooy ner yeas y'all! Just got back from the cousin-in-laws....that IS a thing, right? I hop everyone's 2014 is btte thn their 2013!!!


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

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welcome14
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Default  Posted: 2:45 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Partied with friends, two parties n kissed my yorkie happy new years, then watched harry's law. night all! Happy new years! Maybe next year I will kiss a human boy. Here's hoping!


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1218 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy 2014 Everyone!!!

Time to SHOP!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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welcome14
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

so then, I winz! Last man standing! Yay!


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


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