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User Topic: Happy Birthday Mangled Heart !!!!!!!!!!!
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Cool  Posted: 10:35 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Have a wonderful day!

{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10732 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday, MH!!!

You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy birthday MH. Hope you have a great birthday and a happy new year.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!!!!!


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; theyíll scratch you up time and time again but in the end youíre polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 52586 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday MH!

You rock!!!

Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!!

BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2628 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy birthday! I hope your day and year are as awesome as you are!

Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."

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little turtle
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

happy birthday!!!

Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4202 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Deeply Scared
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!!

Hurry up and get ready...I'm craving your birthday lunch at your mom's!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday MH! I thank the day you were born because without you there would be no SI.

May all your birthday wishes and dreams come true!

P.S. Does your mother make you the same birthday lunch every year and may I ask what it is? I live vicariously though what others get to eat.

BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 9797 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!!!

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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday MH!!!


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5367 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!!

Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24595 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!

FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live

Posts: 37377 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
Member # 33457
Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday MH!!!! Hope you have a great day.

Growing forward

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!

Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

All hail, MH. And Happy Birthday, too!

Age: 64..ummmmmmm,, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

Posts: 7278 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happiest of Birthdays and year to you. May the care and support you and DS have brought to others be returned to you ten thousand fold!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2381 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Deeply Scared
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

P.S. Does your mother make you the same birthday lunch every year and may I ask what it is? I live vicariously though what others get to eat.


MH is playing a game right now so I'll answer on his behalf

Every year she makes him the same birthday lunch. Hot dogs, sauerkraut, pork loin, rye bread and mashed potatoes. It sounds awful but it so flippin' good!! Its one our favorite meals

[This message edited by SI Staff at 6:00 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)]

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Your birthday? How wonderful!!! Happy Birthday to you!!!

D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday, MH!!!

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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday and Thanks!

"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday MH! Sent you a PM

Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"

Posts: 9747 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Member # 3031
Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, January 2nd (Thursday)

Happy Birthday!!!

Remember - there's no place like

"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21270 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, January 2nd (Thursday)

Hope it was wonderful!


Fidelity isn't a's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!

Posts: 21068 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, January 2nd (Thursday)

Happy Birthday MH!! I hope you had a fabulous day

Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, January 2nd (Thursday)

Happy Belated Birthday!

Walk away from anything or anyone who takes away your joy. Life is too short to put up with fools.

Posts: 13806 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

Another belated Happy Birthday! And another 'Thanks!'

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10345 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Member # 18449
Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

Happy Birthday, MH!!! Thanks for everything you do!

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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

Happy Birthday honey and sincere thanks



Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2754 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

Hot dogs, sauerkraut, pork loin, rye bread and mashed potatoes.

That sounds like an EPIC birthday lunch!

Hope you had a great birthday, MH!


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - FranÁois-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17810 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, January 3rd (Friday)

Happy Belated Birthday!

Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.

Posts: 5695 | Registered: Aug 2007
Member # 39836
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, January 4th (Saturday)

A New Year's baby?!?!

Happy Birthday MH!

Entering R slowly and cautiously...

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Member # 32943
Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, January 4th (Saturday)

How did I miss this? Hope you had the wonderful birthday you deserve!

We are so glad you were born.

Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, January 4th (Saturday)

A Belated HApPy BiRtHdAY to our Webmaster Extraordinaire .. No cake, just a trophy!

HApPy BiRtHdAY!!

Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3279 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 2:20 AM, January 5th (Sunday)

Happy Birthday!!
And thanks so much!

~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25435 | Registered: Sep 2005
booger bear
Member # 26584
Content  Posted: 3:23 AM, January 5th (Sunday)

Hope your day was out of this world ... What ?! To cheesy, ya I know ... lol Happy Birthday anyway ...

[This message edited by booger bear at 3:23 AM, January 5th (Sunday)]

I am fiercely independent and I wonít apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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