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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, January 5th (Sunday)

I've been made an aunt for the sixth time! Baby boy came last night at 8:30 PM on his actual due date. 7 lb 13 oz 21 inches long. No name yet. Mom (my little sister), dad, and older brothers (3 and 5) are doing well. Boys want to name him either Red Ninja or Black Marble!!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congratulations aunt purple!!!!

Maybe Purple Ninja would be a better name. At least there is a family connection.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats! Being an auntie is awesome and you are 6x blessed!

Funny about the names. When I was pregnant with DD, DS said he wanted to name her Pinocchio (his favorite movie at the time). When I told him she was going to be a girl he said, 'Okay then we can name her Pinocchia!'


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congratulations!


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats Auntie PJ!!
I think all little kids should be able to name their new siblings. It would be a much more interesting world of names if they did



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Kelany
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats!!!

I can't imagine if I'd let my kids name their sibs. Egads!


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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats!!!


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congratulations!!! Three boys under 5, mom is gonna have her hands full!!!


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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats!!!


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

black marble for sure! congrats. superfun stuff....now mom on the otoh...she may not sleep for a decade!


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

I think all little kids should be able to name their new siblings. It would be a much more interesting world of names if they did .

This. ^^^^^

Congrats Auntie Pee!


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congratulations!!! Red Ninja has my vote!!

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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats Aunt pj!!

And welcome little sis to the 3 boys club for me

My 3 DS are also pretty close in age, 15 1/2 months between DS1 and DS2, and less than 4 years between DS1 and DS3. What was I thinking

((((pj, sis, new nephew))))


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congratulations!


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unfound
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Being an Aunt is the BEST! Congratulations!

*I love Red Ninja !!!


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travels
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats!


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betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Many congrats Aunt PJ!

I think all little kids should be able to name their new siblings. It would be a much more interesting world of names if they did .

I actually let my middle girl name our baby. She at first wanted Tootiehead or Eyeball, and then we told her it needed to be a name we could all agree on, she excitedly shouted " I know, I know! How about Gabriella?!" We loved it and Gabriella she became. We call her Bella and she was born 11-11-11 :)


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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats, aunt PJ!


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Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Another vote for Black Marble! Although I will definitely keep "Eyeball" in mind, in case I am ever asked to suggest a baby name.

Congrats, PJ.


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats, pj4. What lucky little kids to have you for an aunt!

Did you know that 3 sets of parents named their sons Cheese last year? And, no, I don't think it was little kids naming their sibs.


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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats, Auntie!


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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats Purple and family!


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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congratulations!!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Congrats!!!

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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, January 6th (Monday)

Congrats!!


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, January 6th (Monday)

Congratulations Auntie PJ. It's a great feelings isn't it?


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, January 6th (Monday)

Congrats, Auntie!

That's fabulous news!

I'm partial to the name Peyton for obvious reasons.

I've got a gaggle of nephews myself and they are loads and loads of fun.

Enjoy!


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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, January 6th (Monday)

Congrats!!

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, January 6th (Monday)

Thanks everyone! The boy STILL doesn't have a name!!! I guess he's just The Boy for now!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, January 6th (Monday)

Congratulations!!!!


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stroppy_wanadoo
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, January 6th (Monday)

Congratulations!!! So does Aunt Purple get a shot at the naming rights since no other names have made the cut? I think you should hint at that...

My DD wanted to name her baby brother Taco when he was born. I'm really digging the Tootiehead someone's child came up with... now that my kids are 12 and 9, I am sure that Tootiehead is an accurate description of how DD sees her brother!


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