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sinnomore
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Content  Posted: 9:34 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

This am I asked bh a question which was this:

Do you consider us still in the process of reconciling or do you consider us reconciled?

He said reconciled! He also said maybe it was still in process, but felt that it was actually reconciled even though he still has "moments".

I thanked him and realized I had tears of joy in my eyes. I know we are still working on us, and am grateful for his willingness to work it out with me.

Happy New Year!


Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24

Posts: 28 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: USA
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Thanks for sharing this positive news.


xBH
D final 8/2012

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, January 5th (Sunday)


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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helplessme
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

sinnomore,

Happy for you!

How long has it been for you from DDay?


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sinnomore
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Content  Posted: 12:06 AM, January 6th (Monday)

Helplessme,

Thank you:)

Dday was just about 3.5 years ago. It's been a long road, and we both know there may be some challenges ahead however; we are still here together with our family intact.


Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24

Posts: 28 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: USA
helplessme
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, January 6th (Monday)

That is a great encouragement sinnomore! Gives hope to all of us here


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Prayingforhope
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Default  Posted: 4:13 AM, January 6th (Monday)

Big time hope booster. Thanks for sharing...

Also continues to reinforce my need for patience...this is not about days or months, it's about months and years. (I have to remind myself daily of this, since I'm a newbie to destroying my family and wife).


WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:14 AM, January 6th (Monday)

That's awesome !


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Skan
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, January 6th (Monday)

I''m so happy for the two of you.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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RegretfulHusband
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, January 6th (Monday)

Thanks for sharing this sinnomore.

It gives me hope for myself.


Me: FWH, 34
Her: BS, 33
Married: 6 years
Together: 10+ years
Kids: 2 Boys under 5

DDay1: 7+ years ago
DDay2: 1.5 years ago

"The truth shall set you free, but first it will make you miserable."


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, January 6th (Monday)

So pleased for you both.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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