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Crossbow
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Let's see if I remember how to do this....


DDay 7/4/07 found out about online/sexting EA with OM
DDay 7/25/07 found out about OW
In R

2 DSs, ages 8 and 6
DD, 1


Posts: 9376 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Utah
Crossbow
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

This is a pretty recent pic :)


DDay 7/4/07 found out about online/sexting EA with OM
DDay 7/25/07 found out about OW
In R

2 DSs, ages 8 and 6
DD, 1


Posts: 9376 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Utah
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Not bad.


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Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

She's beautiful


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Posts: 52586 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Look at that smile!! She's so beautiful! Give her a hug and a kiss from me

Welcome back. It's nice to see you posting again.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Congrats on the "official" new addition! She is beautiful. I bet those boys are smitten.


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Posts: 6550 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
unfound
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

This makes my heart smile

Welcome Little Miss!!


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

YAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!! I saw the title from the main forum page and got so excited!!! She's so adorable. How are her big brothers??


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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Awesome pics!!!

Crossbow, I'd live to see one with the boys are all three.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Where's the like button?


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Posts: 5262 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Afraid2LoveAgain
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

You left off Angel...
Little Miss Angel.

She is adorable!


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Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

Posts: 426 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
travels
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Hi Crossbow!!!

How cute!


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betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Good to see you back CB :) wow, she is a stunning little one!


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Posts: 867 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
lemony.2008
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Awww....what a cutie!

And she has grown so much! Thanks for sharing.


Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

I saw the title on the main forum page and KNEW who this was!! Whaaaaatta cutie!!! Her eyes are so pretty!!

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HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 11:30 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Cute picture...She looks so sweet and happy.

[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 11:30 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)]


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d-day: June 25, 2007
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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 6:25 AM, January 9th (Thursday)

OMG! What an adorable child! Truly now, she really is gorgeous.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, January 9th (Thursday)

Beautiful!!!!


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. and 2 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, January 9th (Thursday)

Congrats Crossbows!

Little Miss is just adorable!


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Congrats on the "official" adoption - she's a heartbreaker! So sweet!


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Crossbow
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

She is THE best baby I've ever seen! And she's gorgeous, and sweet, and charming, and quite outgoing.

If you exclaim, "Look at that hair! Look at those eyes!" she'll quickly look over at you and smile. Yeah, she's heard that once or twice...! LOL

The boys ADORE ADORE ADORE her. The only sibling rivalry we've seen (concerning her, anyway) is when she's paying more attention to one brother than the other. For her part, when she sees them, her eyes just light up and she smiles so big that you can see all six teeth LOL

She is an angel. And she has a really funny personality.

She's nearly 15 months, just under 19 lbs, cruising like crazy, chattering away (some words are even recognizable LOL). Y'all may remember that she was 5 weeks early, so she's doing great. And she's extremely healthy.

She is truly a blessing. Everyone who meets her falls under her spell.


DDay 7/4/07 found out about online/sexting EA with OM
DDay 7/25/07 found out about OW
In R

2 DSs, ages 8 and 6
DD, 1


Posts: 9376 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Utah
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Cutie patootie!!!!!!


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Crossbow
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Family pic


DDay 7/4/07 found out about online/sexting EA with OM
DDay 7/25/07 found out about OW
In R

2 DSs, ages 8 and 6
DD, 1


Posts: 9376 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Utah
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

great pic Crossbow. Thanks so much for sharing!


FWW - 41
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Crossbow
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Gee whiz, these are HUGE! Sorry about that! Not sure how to make them smaller.... :l

with DS8

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With DS6 (and Daddy)

[This message edited by Crossbow at 5:36 PM, January 9th (Thursday)]


DDay 7/4/07 found out about online/sexting EA with OM
DDay 7/25/07 found out about OW
In R

2 DSs, ages 8 and 6
DD, 1


Posts: 9376 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Utah
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Aww Crossbow, thanks for sharing! What a blessing it is to see you all so happy! Little Miss just makes the picture complete, doesn't she!


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Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

You have such a lovely family.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

SO much cuteness!!! You have such a beautiful family. I love Little Miss's dress. She is so pretty.

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 4:56 AM, January 10th (Friday)

Tough question, but do you see any signs that she shares her brother's emotional ups and downs at all? Did you see any of that in either of the boys this young? I do so hope she's spared some of what your poor son has already endured.


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Crossbow
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, January 10th (Friday)

No. By fifteen months we could definitely see hyperactivity and the beginnings of the emotional issues in DS6. He was clearly hyperactive as a little baby. We have video footage of infant DS6 in his jumpy chair, bouncing away WHILE ASLEEP. Little Miss is easy going and happy, just not maniacally so. She's definitely a toddler, and had her little fits of displeasure about things (putting on coats, getting buckled in her car seat), but they aren't extreme and long lasting like his were at this age. Thank God.


DDay 7/4/07 found out about online/sexting EA with OM
DDay 7/25/07 found out about OW
In R

2 DSs, ages 8 and 6
DD, 1


Posts: 9376 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Utah
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, January 10th (Friday)

How are the boys? Still in swimming/sports?

[This message edited by Amazonia at 8:25 PM, January 10th (Friday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, January 11th (Saturday)

Oh, Crossbow, she is BEYOND adorable! What a blessing to your little family. I'm so glad things worked out.


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Posts: 7278 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
cass
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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

Big congrats Crossbow. What a wonderful family


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

You guys look great!!! SO happy for you!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, January 12th (Sunday)

Beautiful family Crossbow. Thanks for sharing.


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, January 12th (Sunday)

Love seeing pics of the Crossbows!


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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, January 12th (Sunday)

The boys are darling...but Little Miss is gorgeous!!


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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Posts: 3245 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
really trying
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, January 12th (Sunday)

really, really cute kids! Always love seeing your family


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

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timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 12:18 AM, January 13th (Monday)

Ahhhhh beautiful pictures think you for sharing.

As some one who was adopted a a tiny baby too... This touches my heart on so many levels

Bless you all


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 4:51 AM, January 13th (Monday)

Thems some GREAT pix...keep 'em coming!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, January 13th (Monday)

How beautiful! Congrats!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, January 13th (Monday)

Beautiful family!


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
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