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hexed
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

I really really really really really really really really really really really really really really EFFED up at work this week. MAJORILY.

I could just use a little 'not get fired' mojo b/c it is a firable mistake.

If you all could spare a little SI Mojo, I sure would appreciate it.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8460 | Registered: Apr 2008
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

BIG MAJOR MOJO on it's way. (((((hexed)))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25776 | Registered: Aug 2011
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Mojo on its way....


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5284 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Crescita
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Member # 32616
Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Mojo mojo mojo.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3459 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Sending super mojo.

Posts: 35933 | Registered: Mar 2011
jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Big Major Mojo!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24597 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
bbee
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Member # 17840
Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Mojo! And more mojo!


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6656 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
Pentup
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Member # 20563
Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Job stability mojo moving your way. And some peace for you as I am sure this is a nauseating time while you wait

[This message edited by Pentup at 11:03 PM, January 9th (Thursday)]


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6605 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, January 11th (Saturday)

Just saw this.....sending lots of mojo your way!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38093 | Registered: Sep 2007
sadcat
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Member # 8637
Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, January 11th (Saturday)

MOJO MOJO!!!!!


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


Posts: 13259 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: GA
incredulous
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Member # 16737
Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

Sending mojo!


me: BW, now 52;
DD now 16 (adopted by me as single mom, so XWH was "Dad")
married: June, 2005, together since July, 2002
d-day: 10/21/07;
Divorced July, 2008 and he never looked back...

Posts: 1214 | Registered: Oct 2007
hexed
Member
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, January 12th (Sunday)

And I am unemployed....*sigh*


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8460 | Registered: Apr 2008
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, January 12th (Sunday)

((((((hexed))))))) I'm so sorry, honey. Sending you strength and mojo for the job hunt.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25776 | Registered: Aug 2011
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, January 12th (Sunday)

thanks-- just hoping there's not some secret industry wide black list

it as a major mistake. it was my fault. unfortunately it involved a coworker that I've had conflict with so there was no mercy. I can't say I was surprised.

Resumes out. Hope for some feedback next week. Looking at all sorts of options. Who knows, I may be your barista next time you get a latte.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8460 | Registered: Apr 2008
betrayedfriend
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Member # 19785
Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, January 12th (Sunday)

I'm sorry Hexed


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 868 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
unbreak_my_heart
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Member # 12145
Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, January 12th (Sunday)

Hope you get some good news soon...


HAPPILY RECONCILED!

I ♥ my Husband!!!


Posts: 2287 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Our happy place
ItHappened2Me2
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Member # 32503
Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, January 12th (Sunday)

So sorry! (((hexed)))

Job hunting MOJO coming your way.

I'm currently unemployed too. It's not easy - but I'll be praying for you!


BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013 - he started up again with the

Posts: 241 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Texas
hexed
Member
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, January 13th (Monday)

Thanks all. I'm going to need the mojo as I obviously can't use this last job as a reference. It is totally my fault. Every job has one or two mistakes you just can't make...well I made one *sigh*

There are jobs in my industry right now. Its just going to hurt me that I can't use this last job and hopefully I can keep things relatively quiet.

I'm looking at other options for short term employment so I don't go through my savings too fast but I am scared.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8460 | Registered: Apr 2008
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, January 13th (Monday)


So sorry to see this, hexed.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, January 13th (Monday)

I'm stunned.

(((((hexed)))))


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21072 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, January 13th (Monday)

Sending you job hunting mojo Hexed.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 787 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
Crescita
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Member # 32616
Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)

So sorry (((hexed)))


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3459 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)

Sending job hunting mojo.

Check out Liz Ryan's humanworkplace.com. You can probably even join the group, ask how to handle this, and get GREAT advice.

And remember: everybody - everybody - makes mistakes.

My only connection with Liz Ryan is as a consumer of her writing.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10384 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)

hexed, do you still have contacts in your field that you can use a reference? It might help to have people in your corner and then a new employer may "overlook" the mistake. Just a thought.

Sending you lots and lots of job hunting mojo. I hope something comes up for you quickly.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)

(((Hexed))))

So sorry...lots of job mojo headed your way.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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