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hexed
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

I really really really really really really really really really really really really really really EFFED up at work this week. MAJORILY.

I could just use a little 'not get fired' mojo b/c it is a firable mistake.

If you all could spare a little SI Mojo, I sure would appreciate it.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

BIG MAJOR MOJO on it's way. (((((hexed)))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25258 | Registered: Aug 2011
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Mojo on its way....


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5061 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Crescita
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Member # 32616
Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Mojo mojo mojo.

Posts: 3375 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Sending super mojo.

Posts: 35063 | Registered: Mar 2011
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Big Major Mojo!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24500 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
bbee
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Member # 17840
Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Mojo! And more mojo!


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6652 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
Pentup
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Member # 20563
Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

Job stability mojo moving your way. And some peace for you as I am sure this is a nauseating time while you wait

[This message edited by Pentup at 11:03 PM, January 9th (Thursday)]


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6581 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, January 11th (Saturday)

Just saw this.....sending lots of mojo your way!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37533 | Registered: Sep 2007
sadcat
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Member # 8637
Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, January 11th (Saturday)

MOJO MOJO!!!!!


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


Posts: 13242 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: GA
incredulous
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Member # 16737
Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

Sending mojo!


me: BW, now 52;
DD now 16 (adopted by me as single mom, so XWH was "Dad")
married: June, 2005, together since July, 2002
d-day: 10/21/07;
Divorced July, 2008 and he never looked back...

Posts: 1214 | Registered: Oct 2007
hexed
Member
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, January 12th (Sunday)

And I am unemployed....*sigh*


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, January 12th (Sunday)

((((((hexed))))))) I'm so sorry, honey. Sending you strength and mojo for the job hunt.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25258 | Registered: Aug 2011
hexed
Member
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, January 12th (Sunday)

thanks-- just hoping there's not some secret industry wide black list

it as a major mistake. it was my fault. unfortunately it involved a coworker that I've had conflict with so there was no mercy. I can't say I was surprised.

Resumes out. Hope for some feedback next week. Looking at all sorts of options. Who knows, I may be your barista next time you get a latte.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
betrayedfriend
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Member # 19785
Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, January 12th (Sunday)

I'm sorry Hexed


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 867 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
unbreak_my_heart
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Member # 12145
Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, January 12th (Sunday)

Hope you get some good news soon...


HAPPILY RECONCILED!

I ♥ my Husband!!!


Posts: 2285 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Our happy place
ItHappened2Me2
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Member # 32503
Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, January 12th (Sunday)

So sorry! (((hexed)))

Job hunting MOJO coming your way.

I'm currently unemployed too. It's not easy - but I'll be praying for you!


BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013 - he started up again with the

Posts: 241 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Texas
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, January 13th (Monday)

Thanks all. I'm going to need the mojo as I obviously can't use this last job as a reference. It is totally my fault. Every job has one or two mistakes you just can't make...well I made one *sigh*

There are jobs in my industry right now. Its just going to hurt me that I can't use this last job and hopefully I can keep things relatively quiet.

I'm looking at other options for short term employment so I don't go through my savings too fast but I am scared.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, January 13th (Monday)


So sorry to see this, hexed.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13729 | Registered: Jul 2011
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, January 13th (Monday)

I'm stunned.

(((((hexed)))))


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21048 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Must Survive
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Member # 34533
Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, January 13th (Monday)

Sending you job hunting mojo Hexed.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 737 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
Crescita
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Member # 32616
Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)

So sorry (((hexed)))

Posts: 3375 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)

Sending job hunting mojo.

Check out Liz Ryan's humanworkplace.com. You can probably even join the group, ask how to handle this, and get GREAT advice.

And remember: everybody - everybody - makes mistakes.

My only connection with Liz Ryan is as a consumer of her writing.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10047 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
simplydevastated
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Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)

hexed, do you still have contacts in your field that you can use a reference? It might help to have people in your corner and then a new employer may "overlook" the mistake. Just a thought.

Sending you lots and lots of job hunting mojo. I hope something comes up for you quickly.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)

(((Hexed))))

So sorry...lots of job mojo headed your way.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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