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littlefoggy
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

I am going to try this forum out for size.

I don't know if I am really into the dating world yet...

Someone actually gave me their number the other day... and then my toddler literally ate it. So I guess she didn't like him.

I did quit smoking... again.

I started when I was a teen and I quit for 3 years when I got pregnant and had my baby. After DDay, I started again for 2 months. The polar vortex and smoking outside only was enough to get me back quitted and I am 5 days strong!

That's a new beginning, right?


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

Posts: 496 | Registered: Nov 2013
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

Damn straight it is! Yay for 5 days! And welcome to NB, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25320 | Registered: Aug 2011
suckstobeme
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Member # 30853
Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

Of course that's a new beginning. That's a big one so good for you!!!!

We celebrate those, as well as the small ones. Dating only comes into play when you're ready. Until then, tell us all about new beginnings that relate to almost anything else under the sun - a new job, a new place to live, a new houseplant, painting a room, changing a tire, reading a new book, taking an exercise class, trying out a new recipe, etc., etc., etc.


BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

Posts: 2794 | Registered: Jan 2011
259
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Member # 22860
Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

well done on the five days.

doing good stuff leads to feeling good.

Yay for you


Me = FBS
Him = gone


things that happen in my life do not define who I am. I get to choose to be the best I can be, for me. cause I'm worth it.


Posts: 286 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: my happy place (most of the time)
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

Great new beginning, keep it going!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1253 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
sunsetslost
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Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

I started too, right after d day. I'm also 5 days smoke free. Good luck!


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 747 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
littlefoggy
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Member # 41429
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

Thanks, all!

Congrats sunsetslost! We are quitting buddies.


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

Posts: 496 | Registered: Nov 2013
nowiknow23
Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

Yay quitters!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25320 | Registered: Aug 2011
sunsetslost
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Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

To quote my father: "Quitting smoking is easy. I've done it hundreds of times."


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 747 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

^^^ My dad says this too!

Congrats on 5 days smoke free!!
That's a great NB.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4628 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, January 11th (Saturday)

This forum is about so much more than dating, and those of us who have been around awhile discourage people from dating too soon.

I'll see if I can find and bump the non-dating NB thread!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


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