Just Found Out
User Topic: Even In My Dreams
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Default  Posted: 6:56 AM, January 13th (Monday)

Yesterday, for the first time in almost a year I didn't cry about my EXH cheating on me and treating me like crap! Then this morning I woke up from a dream, that he wanted me to go buy a Christmas Ornament for her "That Say's Merry Christmas Honey" WTF!
I think I must be going Crazy!

Posts: 4 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, January 13th (Monday)

Good news on not crying yesterday. Focus on the good things to keep you going.


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 52599 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 40538
Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, January 13th (Monday)

When you are betrayed to this degree, it affects your entire system. It is common for BS to begin having nightmares about the other person, or their spouses leaving, being mean, etc. Your mind is trying to make sense of the senseless.

WH 57
BS 55 -- Me!
LTA EA/PA 1-1/2 years.
D-Day 8-12, 2nd D-Day 9-13, 3rd D-Day 10-13 (stopped counting tt still coming in)
Married 17 yrs, together 20.
MC & IC has been a JOKE.

Status: In careful R. Sometimes spinning our wheels and starti

Posts: 166 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oceanside
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