User Topic: Not doing so well today
Member # 41172
Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)

Im tired and cranky. Had an all day meeting in another location which meant a few hours travel at the end of the day.

Tomorrow I begin moving out properly. I'm moving from WGF so that the kids can stay in 'their' home and since WGF can't afford to move (nor can I afford to be single parent without co-parenting) I agreed to move.

Everything seems to have come flooding back tonight. Stuff I haven't thought about for 8 weeks or more....I am feeling upset and lonely. I spent a while crying this evening, I hate how things are fucked up. Tomorrow, I will try and pick myself up and get on with the business of moving out.

Me: 42 Her: xWGf 39
Not married only engaged.
Two great kids, both under 6
DDay #1: 18 Nov 2013
DDay #2: July 2011

Posts: 88 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: UK
Deeply Scared
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)


I'm sorry you're feeling so down, I hope tomorrow is a little brighter for you.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)


I'm sorry its been a rough day. I hate those days where you just feel defeated. Hopefully once you are getting settled in your new place and have a little removal from the drama, you will feel better.

Sending strength. Hang in there.

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin

Posts: 912 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)

((((Lex)))) The ebb and flow is to be expected, unfortunately. I know that doesn't make the low times any easier.

Hang in there, hon. Remember to focus on your self-care, especially when you are having a bad day.

You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams

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Member # 41907
Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)

I am so sorry that today has been rough. It sound like tomorrow is going to be tough as well. I will pray that you have strength and peace...always. nmd

Posts: 42 | Registered: Jan 2014
Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live

Posts: 37365 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)

Tomorrow is another day. Feel better man.

Posts: 34 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: north east
Member # 29530
Default  Posted: 1:19 AM, January 15th (Wednesday)

I know the ups and downs very well too. My thoughts are with you ((hugs))

Posts: 77 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: SE England, UK
Member # 39532
Default  Posted: 5:53 AM, January 15th (Wednesday)

(((Lex))) I know those days and I feel your pain. Sorry it's been such a hard day. Thinking of you.

BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13

Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.

Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.

Posts: 230 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Here and there...
Member # 41939
Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, January 15th (Wednesday)


So sorry. One day at a time. Don't let her take your hope.

Me: BGF, 43
Him: WBF, 35
Together 9 years, moved in 8/15/2013

Posts: 98 | Registered: Jan 2014
Member # 41477
Default  Posted: 6:23 AM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Sorry to hear about your situation!

But don't move out of your home&don't leave your kids WITHOUT talking about it with your LAWYER!

It might look really bad when it comes to custody issues etc.

Check out the betrayed men on "I can relate", post your situation there.

Best wishes to you and the kids

BxBf, 26
Lots of FOO&other issues, working it through therapy
Legal profession

Posts: 229 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Continental Europe
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