I am a BS 4yrs out from the original D Day and I am DONE.
First year was broken NC with one of her APs along with multiple D Days. Second thru year Four more TT and more D Days as she refused mutliple attempts on my part to get the truth.
Sadley, there is no sign that she is cheating, she seems happier now than she has been in years. She seems to think we are "okay" if not good or great.
Because there has been no complete honesty there is no trust, I've lived on hope that she would hear what I have asked from her from DAY 1, namely, be HONEST!!
I am now beyond caring, she could be honest now and it just doesn't matter to me anymore. Four years ago she was my life, I was desperate to keep us together...begged her to just be transparent and I knew I could forgive. I have forgiven her, I wish nothing but the best for her in the future but her future will not include me as her husband.
Divorce is the only path for us now. I hate the thought of not being with my children every day and night but the destroyed trust is eating my soul away every day I stay in a false marriage.
Waywards, PLEASE consider this post as a WARNING confirmation that TT and multiple D Days are marriage KILLERS!!