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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Dh has just graduated. Last month actually. He was the top graduate, has impeccable references, and solid co-op experience. I have no reservations with his abilities to do the job well, or interview well. 2 professors have called since he graduated asking him to forward his resume for two different unadvertised positions. He did, we just haven't heard anything yet.
The college also asked him to come back next year to teach a specific module, and he was asked to present a study he did at 2 different organizations for meetings. We're in a good place as far as his skills and abilities.
However.. (here's the mojo part ). We need him to work. And waiting is not my strong suit. It's got to the point where the phone rings and we jump out of our chairs.

So if you have a tiny bit of mojo to spare that he starts getting calls that would be awesome. We are willing to do what it takes, and move or look at long commutes.. just waiting for a shot to prove it.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Sending mojo!!!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Sending super mojo.

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

You got it.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

coming your way!!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Tons of speedy mojo!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Sending lots of mojo!


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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JanetS
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

My daughter did a Skype interview last year. She lived in British Columbia, job was in Newfoundland. She got the job. About three weeks later she sold her furniture, shipped her car, and was on a plane across country to start.

I guess Skype interviews are not unusual in this world...saves the employer a ton of $.

Wishing you mojo. Maybe a family move will happen. I've moved to Bermuda, The Yukon, then Niagara (hometown Toronto)....and it's been an adventure.


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Major Mojo!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Job mojo on the way!!

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Thank you everyone!!
Janet.. funny this position is in B.C.
It would not be my first choice to leave friends and family, but we'll do what it takes.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Mojo sent


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
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D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
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― Sophocles, Antigone

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unfound
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

mojo coming your way .

And waiting is not my strong suit

really?


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Sending a ton of MOJO!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 7:47 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

No really unfound.. I know it's hard to believe but I am not very patient.
One of the professors texted him tonight with another lead. This afternoon a friend of a friend asked for his resume as she's in HR at another firm. So if we had any more feelers out there we'd be Octopuses..Octopi.. something with a lot of feelers anyway.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, January 16th (Thursday)

Interview request came in today
You guys and your mojo are the best. This is for a position he applied for back in November



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, January 16th (Thursday)

Continued good thoughts for a great interview!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, January 16th (Thursday)

YAY!!! Interview mojo on the way, and all fingers and toes crossed for you guys.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, January 16th (Thursday)

Thank you! This is a 20 minute phone interview, so likely the pre-screening.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, January 16th (Thursday)

Hooray for the interview request!!! Sending tons of mojo for the next steps.

(Mojo may be biased towards a BC move... )


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

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truthsetmefree
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, January 16th (Thursday)

Yay, meta!!!

I do prayer - so sending that for the absolute right position for him and the patience and comfort for you through the process.


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