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JustSoSad42
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Member # 41711
Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)

Cross - posted in general forum...

Guys, is it physically possible to pull out while having sex sitting up on a sofa, girl on top?

I worry my husband is just saying he pulled out because it sounds better than not pulling out. I feel like this is an important detail I need to know, and need some outside input because I have zero experience with pulling out.


BS: 26, SAHM
WH: 29. Together 10yrs, married 6
3 kids 3 and under
DDay 11/21/13 Husband had ONS Aug. 2013 while living across the country temporarily for work.

Posts: 81 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
Mama58
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Member # 41685
Default  Posted: 12:07 AM, January 16th (Thursday)

Possible- highly unlikely though. This is textbook cheater minimizing to make the whole affair 'palatable ' to you. I bet it was full on crazy sex and much more than he admits to, it always is.

Posts: 61 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Ohio
cannibal
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Member # 40560
Default  Posted: 12:41 AM, January 16th (Thursday)

You definitely can. I would say it''s a lot harder to not make a mess unless you push the woman off of you or she doesn''t want to take it.Then it''s not too bad at all.


Me: BF 35 Her: FWF 35 dss: 17
D-day: 06/06/04. Ons
D-day: 02/28/13. length of A: 4+ months
Seperation after dday
Moved back in 6/20/13
Broke n/c: 07/24/13
Together since: 02/05/02

Posts: 94 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: cannibal
steadfast1973
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Member # 24719
Default  Posted: 3:59 AM, January 17th (Friday)

Yes.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2256 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
numb&dumb
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Member # 28542
Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, January 17th (Friday)

Yes possible. BTDT.


Me-35 her-35

DS 1, DD 6
Dday 8/31/11. ONS that occurred 3 years earlier. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.


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