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User Topic: New Year's resolution and R
pendant
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, January 17th (Friday)

I decided to enjoy my M. I decided to appreciate all my FWH efforts and deeds. I decided to let my walls down 85% and allow myself to demonstrate my love to him.Since Dday he has been consistent, in full R.
These past few weeks I have been more on WW site than here, and realized that while he is committed to R, I was not fully committed.
Thank you to former Waywards who are remorseful and bold enough to share their thoughts and experiences. It opened my eyes to my shortcomings and my H mindset, and current emotions.
I have accepted, I forgave, now I am considering adding reconciled to my status.

[This message edited by pendant at 9:39 PM, January 17th (Friday)]


"Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's events."

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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, January 17th (Friday)

Great news! My hope is to be able to make that proclamation too someday. I'm so happy for you!


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DD July 10, 2013
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