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User Topic: 5,000 Post Party for caregiver9000!!!!!!
Member # 14866
Happy  Posted: 11:18 AM, January 18th (Saturday)

Congratulations caregiver!!!! Thank you for sharing your advice with the compassionate style that you do. Your username fits you to a tee.


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 52587 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 2027
Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, January 18th (Saturday)


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)

Posts: 8032 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, January 18th (Saturday)

Woo Woo!!!

Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24595 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, January 18th (Saturday)


Posts: 35848 | Registered: Mar 2011
Deeply Scared
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, January 18th (Saturday)


You are one of the nicest people here...thank you so much for always reaching out to help and share. We appreciate you very much!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

Posts: 198258 | Registered: May 2002
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, January 18th (Saturday)

I second DS! Congratulations and heres to many more posts. Woot Woot!

BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 9797 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, January 18th (Saturday)

Congratulations!! Thanks for helping so many of us. Your threads are legendary.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, January 18th (Saturday)

So much YAY! Thank you for everything you do, cg.

You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

Posts: 25717 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, January 20th (Monday)

Whoo hoo

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1777 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, January 20th (Monday)

Nothing like being late to my own party...

I didn't even notice, either the milestone post or the fireworks. The comments are beyond kind and touch me deeply. I am all choked up.

Being able to give here is a blessing. I received so much and continue to do so!!

Thank you thank you thank you!!!!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5859 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, January 20th (Monday)

Thank you for supporting all of us!

Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2707 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 35619
Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, January 20th (Monday)

D final 8/2012

Posts: 4000 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 11:41 PM, January 20th (Monday)

Way to go, CG!! Keep up the good work.

Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

Posts: 7824 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 6:11 AM, January 21st (Tuesday)

Woot woot! You are such an inspiration! Thank you!

divorced the Dooosh
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)

Even later to the party!!!

Congratulations !!! Thanks for being here.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5263 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday)


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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