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sparkle09
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, January 18th (Saturday)

My H is calling the OW fiancÚ to expose her trying to blackmail my H for his job along with sending him the recorded phone conversation of her planning all this!! He may lose his job but he says he doesn't care. It's the right thing to do I know in my heart it is. This bitch thinks she can mess with ppls lives! I had to take a kolonopin to deal with this!!


Me-33 WS-34
1 year old sweet baby girl that is my world!
Together 15 years Married 5 years
D-day #1 - 12/25/13 TT D-day #2 - 1/3/13 admitted to 3 year affair with co worker
and she gave him a nice present that I now have!

Posts: 108 | Registered: Jan 2014
PurpleLilac
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, January 18th (Saturday)

[This message edited by PurpleLilac at 11:48 AM, February 22nd (Saturday)]


Me-BS
Him-WH

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sparkle09
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Member # 41901
Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, January 18th (Saturday)

He didnt answer so my H text him the recording and the threatening text she sent. He has not heard back.


Me-33 WS-34
1 year old sweet baby girl that is my world!
Together 15 years Married 5 years
D-day #1 - 12/25/13 TT D-day #2 - 1/3/13 admitted to 3 year affair with co worker
and she gave him a nice present that I now have!

Posts: 108 | Registered: Jan 2014
sparkle09
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Member # 41901
Default  Posted: 6:15 AM, January 19th (Sunday)

Ok her fiancÚ finally responded after I text him and said. Thank you I did get the recording I will take it from here. There is no need to contact me again. Ugh do you think it's her? He is a very macho matter a fact guy from last time I talked to him so I don't know should I tell him I would like to hear you say it so I know it's not OW or leave it alone?


Me-33 WS-34
1 year old sweet baby girl that is my world!
Together 15 years Married 5 years
D-day #1 - 12/25/13 TT D-day #2 - 1/3/13 admitted to 3 year affair with co worker
and she gave him a nice present that I now have!

Posts: 108 | Registered: Jan 2014
simplydevastated
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Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 6:22 AM, January 19th (Sunday)

She sounds like a real piece of work. I'm glad your husband outed her. You bring up a valid point about not knowing of it's her. Does your husband have something else he could give the fiancÚ and deliver it in a way that you know it's him? Just a thought. Good luck.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

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PurpleLilac
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Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, January 19th (Sunday)

[This message edited by PurpleLilac at 11:48 AM, February 22nd (Saturday)]


Me-BS
Him-WH

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shatteredapart
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Default  Posted: 5:25 AM, January 20th (Monday)

Thinking of you. I hope he really got it and you can find a way to verify it. It's hard living in limbo.


Me-BS
Him-WS
EA(PA?) 10 months with COW
3 ddays-Sept '13, Oct '13, Dec '13
Attempting Reconciliation...time and actions will tell

Posts: 118 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
spond
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Default  Posted: 6:15 AM, January 20th (Monday)

Ugh do you think it's her? He is a very macho matter a fact guy from last time I talked to him so I don't know should I tell him I would like to hear you say it so I know it's not OW or leave it alone?

I would either text him again and just say, "Hey I just want to hear you say it" or call him from another number & verify he got it.

With a text message there is no guarantee that he received it on the other end. She could have intercepted it and just replied back and deleted it.


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

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sparkle09
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, January 20th (Monday)

So my H is calling his boss this morning to reveal the affair and try to cover his ass. Since H told her fiancÚ the truth who knows what she is going to run to HR and say she is crazy.


Me-33 WS-34
1 year old sweet baby girl that is my world!
Together 15 years Married 5 years
D-day #1 - 12/25/13 TT D-day #2 - 1/3/13 admitted to 3 year affair with co worker
and she gave him a nice present that I now have!

Posts: 108 | Registered: Jan 2014
Skan
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, January 20th (Monday)

Wise idea since she may run to HR sobbing and claiming sexual harassment. He needs to get there first and get the story told.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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sparkle09
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, January 20th (Monday)

So my H boss said he would do what he could to protect him AND he has been in the exact same situation (wtf) years ago and he is happy he manned up and came forward first. The issue is this is just his manager once HR gets their hands on this it is out of his control.


Me-33 WS-34
1 year old sweet baby girl that is my world!
Together 15 years Married 5 years
D-day #1 - 12/25/13 TT D-day #2 - 1/3/13 admitted to 3 year affair with co worker
and she gave him a nice present that I now have!

Posts: 108 | Registered: Jan 2014
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