Member # 41764
| Posted: 5:04 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday)|
It's been over 10 months since I found out and I am still in limbo trying to figure out what's right. I can tell you 100% for sure - you guys have to see some kind of therapist together. Sometimes it is hard for me to talk without being angry and making snarky comments and we often don't really "hear" each other.
I will also say, he has to be 100% committed to making it work and making sacrifices to show you he wants it to work. My WH deleted fb, changed his phone number and changed his email. I wouldn't even be considering working it out if he hadn't taken these steps. He's also in IC.
Good luck. And remember if you want it to work, keep trying
Me: BS, 30
Him: WS, 30
D-Day: April 2013 (about 5 years of cheating with multiple OW)
Posts: 24 | Registered: Dec 2013