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roarlouder
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Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, January 24th (Friday)

I left last night.., I know it's what I needed to do. I am so nervous he's going to be nasty and sneaky financially and I didn't have a chance to get any documents, etc.

It was so empowering to leave, but so shitty to feel so vulnerable right now.


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, January 24th (Friday)

(((roarlouder)))


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16420 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Softcentre
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Member # 39166
Default  Posted: 1:56 AM, January 24th (Friday)

I hear you ((hugs))


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - my friend 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - EA/PA - 'Fat Bottomed Girl'


Posts: 749 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
roarlouder
Member
Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 3:27 AM, January 24th (Friday)

And it shouldn't matter, but I wonder who is on my house tonight? I just had an additional woman confirmed tonight (I had pretty much figured out)... I told a friend I left, and she said I need to tell you a story I heard 6 months ago.

There's no question this is what I need to be doing. I just wonder when the urge to drive by my house in the middle if the sleepless night will pass?


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, January 24th (Friday)

(((((roarlouder))))) That urge passes, honey. I'm glad you are safe.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24435 | Registered: Aug 2011
JerseyCowgirl
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Member # 41441
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, January 24th (Friday)

You will get through this. He probably will become nasty so be prepared.

Today I will keep you in my thoughts ... safety for you and that peace will come to you now.

It is not fair you have to leave and the changes will be overwhelming at times but know I will be thinking good thoughts all day for you.


Me: Divorced 2012
I know that when I truly love & honor myself I am at my best & most complete; and I will never settle for anything less from myself or from anyone else ever again!

Posts: 286 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Have not decided where to land yet!
roarlouder
Member
Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Thank you for the support. I am surrounded by amazing family, friends, bosses. I wish I would have been legally better prepared before I left, but I couldn't pretend and I just needed out.

5 hours of sleep in 2 days isn't quite cutting it either


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
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