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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, January 24th (Friday)

Can make you smile ....

Things have been tough in the R forum lately. Lets go into the weekend knowing we will be ok....

Happy Friday



[This message edited by karmahappens at 6:58 AM, January 24th (Friday)]


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
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Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 6:33 AM, January 24th (Friday)


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, January 24th (Friday)


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, January 24th (Friday)


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 6:37 AM, January 24th (Friday)


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 6:39 AM, January 24th (Friday)


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 6:40 AM, January 24th (Friday)


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, January 24th (Friday)


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
AFrayedKnot
Member
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, January 24th (Friday)

Thanks


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2633 | Registered: Aug 2012
Zengirl
Member
Member # 42195
Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, January 24th (Friday)

Thank you so much. I needed some of these today.


Me (BW): 40
Married: 15 years
3 kids
D-Day: 10/13

Posts: 157 | Registered: Jan 2014
LA44
Member
Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, January 24th (Friday)

Love, Love, Love all of these posts - esp the scribble drawing to Recovery, thus my tagline, R is not linear.

I ADORE you, Karma!

Thank you.
L


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2459 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
catlover50
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Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, January 24th (Friday)

Nice!

My favorites are the recovery, expectations/reality and the deepest pain ...

Thanks!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1763 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
stunnedin12
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Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, January 24th (Friday)

It might be cheesy, but I got up this morning and listened to, "you're gonna hear me roar"

I like that song - alot.


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

Posts: 477 | Registered: Jan 2013
LA44
Member
Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Just opened my Joel Osteen, Every Day a Friday book and saw this...

When you live as a healer, you break down the walls. You soften the hard hearts. Love never fails.

You are a healer, Karma.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2459 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Rebreather
Member
Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Like.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6549 | Registered: Jan 2011
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, January 24th (Friday)

My favorites are the recovery, expectations/reality and the deepest pain ...

Me too cat :)

Just opened my Joel Osteen, Every Day a Friday book and saw this...
When you live as a healer, you break down the walls. You soften the hard hearts. Love never fails.

You are a healer, Karma.

Oh LA, I love Joel Osteen.

Thank you for your kind words. I think the world of you as well.

xx
Dee



“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, January 24th (Friday)

There's just so many good ones



“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, January 24th (Friday)


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, January 24th (Friday)


Enjoy the weekend everyone. I hope everyone can enjoy a piece of it.

Find your peace.

(((hugs)))


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Rebreather
Member
Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, January 24th (Friday)


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6549 | Registered: Jan 2011
LA44
Member
Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Nice one, Rebreather! Your humour and no nonsense words have been a great help to me too.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2459 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Love that Rebreather!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
shatteredapart
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Member # 41978
Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Karmahappens thank you for the posts! Rough night here last night but we sorted it out before bedtime. Ugh...we're still learning how to communicate properly and fight fair. One step at a time...
All your posts rang true and a few made me chuckle even. Thanks!!!


Me-BS
Him-WS
EA(PA?) 10 months with COW
3 ddays-Sept '13, Oct '13, Dec '13
Attempting Reconciliation...time and actions will tell

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
Morhurt
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Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, January 24th (Friday)

First try with a photo...

edited to try again...
and again!

[This message edited by Morhurt at 2:36 PM, January 24th (Friday)]


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 951 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, January 24th (Friday)

((((shatteredapart))) One step indeed....be good to yourself along the way.

Great job Morhurt!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Morhurt
Member
Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Another one I love

[This message edited by Morhurt at 2:49 PM, January 24th (Friday)]


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 951 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Morhurt
Member
Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, January 24th (Friday)

These next two are cards that our little girls made for us. They didn't know what was wrong this summer, only that there were a lot of tears and Mum and Dad needed to spend a lot of time alone together. So sweet and so sad.

You two are so perfect together.

You two are in loving partners together.

Edited to add translations

[This message edited by Morhurt at 2:56 PM, January 24th (Friday)]


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 951 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Those are awesome morhurt!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
ILINIA
Member
Member # 39836
Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, January 24th (Friday)


Thanks for a good end to the work week!


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 492 | Registered: Jul 2013
Rebreather
Member
Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Agree with Ilinia! Now I'm off shortly to get my hairs did, then to the neighbors for pizza (salad for me) and puppy breath. Certainly THAT is a healing thing!!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6549 | Registered: Jan 2011
mandala
Member
Member # 41724
Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Thanks guys.

Been a "down" couple of days for no particular reason, just one of the "spells" I guess.

Here's to everyone having at least one genuine laugh about something/anything this weekend.


Me: BW 50
Him: WH 50
Married 21 years
Four awesome kids
EA Began 6/2013 PA 8-9/2013 (4 meetings) DDay 9/10/2013
OW : "friend" - older, fatter and uglier than me.
Working on R

Posts: 52 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: usa
MrsDoubtfire
Member
Member # 24786
Default  Posted: 3:27 AM, January 25th (Saturday)


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†

Posts: 1583 | Registered: Jul 2009
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