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tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, January 24th (Friday)

Dammit all to hell. Ex-shat just texted and said that he'll be at the breakfast thing.
Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.

And then he asks if this is his make-up weekend with Teslet. What the ever-loving fuck is wrong with your cognitive processing skills? Oh Christ, that is sooooooo rhetorical.

Too much drinking, pot-smoking, pill-popping, blow jobs from stripper wife trying to earn her pony, and time off of work...has clearly destroyed the functioning brain you once had.

Go back and read our previous text exchange regarding the fucking make-up weekend.

Oh, my bad, he says. I'm getting my bonus in early Feb, he says. I'll be able to pay you everything I owe you with it, he says. If it doesn't cover what I owe, I'll be able to pay you out of my tax refund, he says.

For god's sake. Just stop wasting air. The oxygen could be put to better use. Like fanning the flame I light your promises with.

You have not paid CS since the beginning of fucking November. You owe me thousands of dollars from the 2012 tax return. And yet, there you sit, in your stupid rental house, playing lord of the manor to shit for brains stripper whore and the menagerie, suspended from work for being drunk on the job, trying to get an ego kibble from me for *saying* that you'll pay me what you owe me.

Did I mention that this fucker is suspended WITH pay???? Yep. He gets his base pay. He can keep his goddamned amazing paying job too if he attends rehab classes. His base pay is 2.5 times what I make. 2.5 fucking times. And has Teslet seen a mother-fucking dime of it????

Who do you think covers the shortfall when you don't pay CS? Oh shit, nevermind...you are so incapable of reasoning out that answer. Let me help you...ME! I cover it. I cover it by cutting where I can and using my savings account.

And now you are going to attend this family breakfast, on D-day (fuckmylife)because you need some ego kibbles. Well, Teslet will give them to you. You'll get the reaction you want in public from him. I am going to try very hard not to throw up.

You have until Feb 10th to pay the money you owe me. Otherwise, you can go sit in jail or be fined by the court for all I give a fuck. I hope to god you screw this up and if that bonus check gets here before the 10th that you send it all to child support (actually, you might need to...you owe Teslet nearly as much as that 2012 tax refund you owe me)...cause you'll still be on the hook for the 2012 tax refund and the court won't give a flying fuck that you just sent it to CS.

This guy needs to fall off the face of the earth. right. now.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4620 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, January 24th (Friday)

This guy needs to fall off the face of the earth. right. now.

Being practical here: he can fall off the face of the earth AFTER he pays you or he has insurance to cover his obligations!

Aww. Fuggedabout it FTG!

I can't figure out what to hope for him showing up (cause Teslet will be happy) or not (cause it'll make Tesla happy) yikes!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5070 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, January 24th (Friday)

((((tesla)))) Given how stellar his track record is of keeping his word, I wouldn't be surprised if he "forgot" about the breakfast and didn't show up.

But if he does, I'm channeling so much Xanax mojo your way, it isn't even funny. Hang in there, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25312 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, January 24th (Friday)


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9664 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, January 24th (Friday)

I hope he sends it to CS. That way he still owes you and might find himself in contempt.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1753 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Jagoff.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7643 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Typical loser without a clue.

My hope is that he shows up without stripper whore... That way your baby can still get what he wants a little bit, but you don't have to deal with her stupidity.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3582 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Xanax before. Dress to kill and just sit and smile at your phone like you're getting love bombs all morning.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
debbysbaby
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Member # 32962
Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Falling off the face of the earth would screw you. Then the life insurance company would wait seven years before declaring him dead and paying you the life insurance that hopefully he has taken out and made you beneficiary of.

Better that he drops dead of a massive heart attack while stripper whore is blowing him.

Sorry you are dealing with all of this. It sucks. It looks very familiar. Unfortunately I've had many instances of this sort of thing.


-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

Posts: 866 | Registered: Aug 2011
BAB61
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Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, January 24th (Friday)

damn .. FTG!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, January 24th (Friday)

I'll bet $50 he won't show. He's just doing this to fuck with you. Same as the never-ending make up weekend.

Motherfuckingdogstealingdeadbeatsackofponyshit

Don't let him ruin the breakfast for you. The sad clown showed up to a family day and stood there by himself like the loser that he is whilst I mingled with everyone - people I know because I'm involved in school life, my girls lives and I'm a fun and interesting person. Half of them thought OWUmpteen (who they've seen hiding in the car at pickups) was his older daughter - I corrected them: No, she is his office gopher/whore).

Bring on 10 Feb.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5557 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
thebighurt
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Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Here's hoping they all pay up, get their beneficiaries in the proper priorities and the train carrying them all derails and falls off a cliff! That would certainly put a smile on my face!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2329 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
ruinedandbroken
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Member # 29250
Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, January 24th (Friday)

What an ignorant moron!!!!

I would have a difficult time not throwing up.


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1575 | Registered: Aug 2010
gonnabe2016
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Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, January 24th (Friday)

And then he asks if this is his make-up weekend with Teslet

I know it's *not* funny.....but, oh crap....yes, it is

Tes, you'll be *fine* at this breakfast thing. The distraction of imagining the SI post that you will compose afterwards will keep you distracted. But they both better behave, considering that it's on your Dday and 'claws' might be displayed if they cross any lines......


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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