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Angeles85
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Member # 42107
Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, January 27th (Monday)

It's been 3 weeks since D-Day...still in so much pain. I finally found a small apartment and I just wish I could be excited about it but I'm not. I feel worse than ever and cannot imagine decorating or buying stuff for only ONE person, not for two like I used to when we were together...I Haven't sleep good. I dream a lot, they are random dreams and I wake up every hour all sweat. My bavk and head hurts...I just feel terrible and now that I have to go back to our house to pick up my stuff I just don't know if I can resist. Unfortunately R is not possible because this is the 3rd time I catched him...I guess I'm just finalling realizing that IT'S OVER and it just hurts soooo much :(

Posts: 137 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Los Angeles
Justgreatnews
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Member # 41666
Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, January 27th (Monday)

I've read some of your backstory, and hope I can send you some strength. Don't doubt yourself. You've done nothing wrong. You're the strong one, so focus on yourself.

Good women, such as yourself, as always being sought by men that value and honest and caring woman. You will wind in the end.

Be strong.


Posts: 261 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
I think I can
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Member # 17756
Default  Posted: 5:33 AM, January 28th (Tuesday)

Of course you will grieve the end of your relationship. On the other hand, now you KNOW you will never have to catch him at it again. No more DDays.


I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.

Posts: 8824 | Registered: Jan 2008
kalimata
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Member # 42104
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, January 28th (Tuesday)

Implement and live the 180. It will help you tremendously to move on. Spend as little time as possible in the new apartment.

Get some new hobbies. Go out with old friends. Go to the gym and work out. Take care of yourself. Hold your chin up high.


Posts: 191 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
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