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norabird
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, January 29th (Wednesday)

Is this worth it? Did you feel it was helpful or just vindictive?


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 3759 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, January 29th (Wednesday)

Don't do it. It will do nothing for you. I haven't done it and I thought about it but it doesn't do anything but give a place to the person who cheated/or interfere in your marriage a place to live permanently.

Yes, they will be pointed out as a cheater, but now they have kingdom that puts them on a throne that you will never be able to move on from. Imagine, you work things out in your marriage/relationship and yet, you have posted your WS on here or OM/OW and the power it gives them if they found out.

These things seem like a good idea, but in the long run, it's just for justice we would do that and it's not really justice. Justice would be getting your marriage back and making it work better than before. Justice would be the OM/OW leaving your spouse alone and apologizing to you for even pursuing your Spouse and causing problems.


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1029 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Deeply Scared
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Red  Posted: 10:07 AM, January 29th (Wednesday)

norabird...

SI is not part of revenge sites. Please leave the URL's/links off of here.

Members are fine with sharing their stories, just leave the sites out of it.

Thank


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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