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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:16 PM, February 7th (Friday)

I had to start a thread because I actually have something to do--at least for tomorrow

I'm going to try snowshoeing; it's a meetup at a local state park. I hope it works out (I'm very uncoordinated ) because I've signed up to go birding by snowshoe next Wednesday


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Posts: 20228 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
lemony.2008
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Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, February 8th (Saturday)

Sounds like fun, hope you have a great time.


Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron


Posts: 2243 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, February 8th (Saturday)

Unpacking and exploring my new neighborhood!

Posts: 1694 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
cmego
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, February 8th (Saturday)

I had a ton of plans, but my kids decided to make a really irresponsible choice, so now they are grounded…and I'm stuck in the house too.

Which, is why I have a ton of time on SI this morning.

[This message edited by cmego at 8:25 AM, February 8th (Saturday)]


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, February 8th (Saturday)

Having a great weekend! DS and I prepared a wonderful "Thanksgiving" dinner to share with lovely company today. Also had a chance to have a nice talk with him.

Tomorrow I hope to meet up with a fellow SI member. Another new friend!!

Perfect weekend!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, February 8th (Saturday)

Nothing big this weekend. Just coursework, housework, and mommywork.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4656 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, February 8th (Saturday)

IrishLad is at his Dad's si this weekend I am helping out my younger sister by babysitting my niece while my sister and her husband do some demo on their house. This little girl is so cute
I also have the oldest IrishLad at my place this weekend doing laundry and generally just hanging out.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1763 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, February 8th (Saturday)

Insanity trying to prepare for an important business trip next week...


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


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phmh
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, February 8th (Saturday)

Sad -- how was the birding? Did you see anything fun?

Friday night I got to see one of my favorite artists in concert. I was about 20 feet away from him -- he has such an amazing voice, and I went with three of my good friends. Dinner before -- fabulous night.

This morning I had to get up really early and head to the trails for a training run. Just work up from a short restorative nap, and about to get ready and head out for a friend's birthday.

Sunday morning will be running, and then I have the rest of the day to myself with no plans! So it will involve cleaning my house, yoga, and reading.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, February 8th (Saturday)

All this reading about running and snowshoeing is making me tired.

We are supposed to have flurries tonight. I got a car today and went and stocked up on fire logs. And wine.

Can you see where this is going?

I did get a good brisk walk in after dropping off the car.

No plans other than finishing the last HTML assignment and playing the new guitar. I tried following along with one of The Boyfriend's (*) videos and realized that a) he plays way more than I do and b) he has massively big hands, so those insanely wide chord stretches are a piece of cake for him LOL.

Tonight I'm having wine because I was under the weather yesterday (the "F" day) and so this is *technically* my Friday night.

I fired up the food tracking software and it says I can squeeze that in if I skip the noodles in tonight's dinner and have a massive salad instead.

Yay?

So fire, wine and Netflix for me tonight.

(*)

[This message edited by FaithFool at 6:21 PM, February 8th (Saturday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, February 8th (Saturday)

An indoor carnival at the fairgrounds. The Lego Movie, which DD did not really like. Church on Sunday. Lots of cleaning and laundry afterwards.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, February 9th (Sunday)

I went to an all-women murder mystery party where all the characters were super-heroes (made up superheroes). It was a blast! Today is work on taxes day and cooking ahead for the week.

Sad - how did you like snowshoeing? I love it. Unfortunately, we've had so much cold weather, it's been hard to get out and enjoy all the snow.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, February 9th (Sunday)

Snowshoeing was fun! I want to buy a pair now


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