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tesla
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

Well, the 10th has come and gone...No desperation text. Not even to mention when he could pay me.

Ironically, his health insurance was terminated yesterday at midnight as well. (Which he never informed me was going to happen...I only knew because I was periodically checking with the carrier.)

I've put Teslet on my health insurance. Am looking into a modification of the terms of the settlement (since he gets a credit for carrying Teslet on his insurance).

Requested that we go after the back child support. (Has not paid since beginning of last November.)

And we are taking the next step in the contempt process, which is to send him a letter requesting that he contact my lawyer's office regading the payment while filing another order to show cause hearing. L says that the court does not look kindly upon ZERO effort being made to clear contempt and that she fully expects that he will be incarcerated.

Hopefully the letter saying, "Hey you dumb piece of shit, pay your money NOW or you are going to JAIL!" will spur him into action.

Then again, I doubt it. He's out of a job and needs money. Any tax refund or bonus he gets he is going to need to pay his bills at this point.

I don't even get how someone can be so fucking stupid.

[This message edited by tesla at 4:59 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)]


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Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

He is still in fantasy land where he won the last contempt hearing


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So shake him off
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IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

I am quite sure that he is planning to win the lottery and take care of all the financials with the winnings. If you would just get on board with his plan, read his mind and be a little patient and understanding everything would work out in unicorn/rainbow fartland.

Oh, this is getting good. I'm getting my popcorn and the whiskey and coke.


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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

Then again, I doubt it. He's out of a job and needs money. Any tax refund or bonus he gets he is going to need to pay his bills at this point.

I know he isn't working, so wage garnishing is out, but wouldn't child support services snag the tax return?


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movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

Damn his life is just falling apart now isn't it... Dumb ass


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

Dementors. He gets dementors.

What a jagoff. If he is incarcerated, and unable to care for a jointly owned pet,...... Just sayin.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

The unicorn isn't happy anymore.

The unicorn is leaving this fairy tale.

Shit's about to get real.

Wait. That's not right. Try again.

Okay. Here we go. Try again. Tesla is rightfully pissed off. Let 'er rip, Krakkie!

[This message edited by Nature_Girl at 6:03 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)]


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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

Sic'em Tesla!

And NG, lol!


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:47 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

NG - that was fucking hysterical.

As to whether CS services will get the tax return...doubtful, since he can only expect money back from his federal return (he always ends up owing the state since he works in a different state) and he may get his refund back before we have a chance to do anything.

His options are very limited.
The only bad thing about this is that the last time his options were very limited, he kicked in my door and stole Mosley.


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SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

He's like a deer who hides behind a tree and thinks it can't be seen.

Do I remember correctly that he told stripperwhore he owns their rental place?

I agree, Tesla - this is beyond 'normal' asshattery - he is clearly unhinged and not in a funny way. Do you have sensors/video surveillance?

Again, I'm hating being grateful for the sad clown right now.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

(((tesla)))

The stress! I wish he'd be less fucking stupid.


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

May Zeus smile down on you while the Kraken gobbles your ex-shat up whole, sending his soul to Tartarus.

Actually, Hades probably wouldn't want him. May your ex-shat enjoy his second life as a turd after the Kraken digests him.


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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

I missed that he lost his job. How did that happen?


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courageous
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

But how is stripper whore ever going to earn her pony?

In all seriousness now.... That totally suck having to dish out so much money because the ex is such a jerk/ idjat.

Please keep us posted. I hope he doesn't try to break in your house again or hurt you and teslet. There might be quite of few of us that would need our earrings held if he does.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

SBB - yes, he told stripper whore that he bought the house they live in but it is a rental.

newlysingle - he was suspended with pay sometime in November or December for being caught drunk on the job. I understand that his company had been following him around for a couple of weeks to build the case before they made him take a breathalizer. He was given the option to attend a rehab program in order to keep his job (all while still being paid!) I believe he was milking the suspension with pay for all he could, thinking that he could just go get another job. When the other job wasn't panning he out, he went to the rehab...but failed a test (hmmmm....whatever could that be?) and the company kicked him out of the program and suspended him without pay. I assume he lost his job...or at the very least did not pay the health ins premiums since I found out there was a termination date on Teslet's health ins.

So, needless to say...the guy is in a shit spot right now.

I've had the CS numbers rerun, assuming he has the same paying job and in every scenario, his CS amount increases. My L says that it is possible that he could argue that he has no income and should not have his prior income counted. But she says that given the circumstances of his job loss, there is a good chance the judge wouldn't care and would keep his income number the same. I would love to get on record precisely why he lost that job as it could potentially have implications with visitations. (If anyone has had a similar experience and wouldn't mind posting or sending me a pm, I'd appreciate hearing about it.) I need to decide soon if I want the CS modification to go through...like tomorrow...because if it is in my favor...the sooner I file that petition the better.

Way too much to think about.


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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)

Have not had to deal with this yet, the D ain't happening until Jun/Jul .. but I'll be sending you positive thoughts and prayers.


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Default  Posted: 2:06 AM, February 12th (Wednesday)

I can't believe the stupidity of someone losing that kind of job over that!! Well, except in the case of exshat, that is.

I worked in the same kind of business. It happened there, and virtually every time, we all shook our heads and wondered just what kind of idiot they were. They give you so many opportunities to come clean and offer all kinds of help.

This really does put you all in a hard spot. You almost have to root for him to get his job back so maybe you end up with *some* money. Jail is what he deserves, but that just makes everything worse.

((((Tesla and Teslet)))) I'm glad you could put him on your medical. Also rooting for this to somehow free Mosley from the insanity of unicorn fartland (finally) and hoping for your safety.


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Default  Posted: 2:07 AM, February 12th (Wednesday)

And, thanks for the laughs, NG.


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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Have you thought about blackmailing him with Mosely?

Like, negate one month of CS in exchange for ownership of Mosely.

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movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Send the remodification through. This isn't your fault he fucked up his life. Remember, he wasn't thinking about you when he was banging the stripper. I see him begging to be back with you in the next few years because as dumb as that whore is, I am sure she will start cheating when she realizes your ex is broke.

[This message edited by movingforward13 at 10:25 AM, February 12th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, February 12th (Wednesday)

How's that Kraken this morning?

Stripper whore thought that she was getting a pony not a Kraken


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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Wow, he really is a mess. I'm do sorry Tesla. I'm hoping he can pull his shit together for Teslet's sake.


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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)


Ironically, his health insurance was terminated yesterday at midnight as well. (Which he never informed me was going to happen...I only knew because I was periodically checking with the carrier.)
So he didn't even bother to tell you that your son no longer has health insurance? And had you not been checking on this on your own, you could have not found out until next time you took him to the doctor and they were like "um, he has no health insurance anymore..." What a piece of shit he is.

she fully expects that he will be incarcerated.
Good. And I hope you do not even feel bad about this.

Hopefully the letter saying, "Hey you dumb piece of shit, pay your money NOW or you are going to JAIL!" will spur him into action.
I bet it won't, because he's just that stupid.

Did you talk to your lawyer about bargaining to get your dog back?


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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

I need to decide soon if I want the CS modification to go through...like tomorrow...because if it is in my favor...the sooner I file that petition the better.
Do it!


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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

I cannot believe how fucking stupid your ex-shat is.

He is living in denial. "This isn't a rental!" "I didn't lose my job!" "I still have Teslet on my insurance!" "Stripper Whore is smart!"

I hope you get Mosely back. And I hope your ex-shat enjoys jail.


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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

You need to file that petition because even apart from the A:

- He''''s a twat
- He chose to break into your house & steal your dog
- He chose not to pay the CS he owes Teslet
- He chose not to pay you
- He thinks stripper whore will never find out that he chose to lie to her about renting the house, rather than buying it (she''''ll find out when he goes to jail and isn''''t paying the rent )
- He chose to get drunk, take the mickey out of his work being generous & then chose to think they wouldn''''t apply the rules to him
- He chose not to let you know about Teslet''''s medical insurance lapsing
- He chose to ignore the court
- He chose to steal your dog (sorry, did I say that twice? )


See that whole list of choices he made? He thinks that he''''s special and the consequences of his choices won''''t fall on him, cos people always soften his fall, right?...Umm, no.

See, you aren''''t doing any of this to him. He''''s chosen it all for himself. He chose JAIL rather than to sort himself out. Who says he can''''t do commitment? He''''s committed himself to the path of unicorn farting, it''''s a wonderful (if I just close my eyes tightly, stick my fingers in my ears, ignore reality and sing loudly) ass shatting life.

[This message edited by Softcentre at 1:54 PM, February 12th, 2014 (Wednesday)]


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

The only reason I would not file the petition to modify support is *if* it ended up reducing Teslet's support because the court chooses to allow his income number to be zero since he lost his job.

I'll wait to file the petition until he has another job if that is the case.

But after a couple of pointed questions to my lawyer, I am confident that the circumstances of the loss of his income will come into play and the court will still hold him accountable for the income amount.

Because what stupid fucking moron loses this kind of job and blows the opportunity to get it back?
So I told her to file the petition.

And as far as I am concerned, there is a special circle of hell reserved for this dipshit. It is reprehensible that he never informed me that Teslet's health insurance was being terminated. Shit happens to little kids...broken bones that require surgeries...jesus, a car accident can give you a medical bill of 1/2 million in no time. I just cannot fathom how the fucker sleeps at night.


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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Remind me, tesla - what does he do?

Did?


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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Well, no job, means no money to pay the rent, means eviction notice, means have to find a new place to live, and dude, you have a DOG, good luck with that... perhaps Tesla will bail you out?


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Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

It is reprehensible that he never informed me that Teslet's health insurance was being terminated. Shit happens to little kids...broken bones that require surgeries...jesus, a car accident can give you a medical bill of 1/2 million in no time. I just cannot fathom how the fucker sleeps at night.

We have National Health Care / full medical in Australia - I can't imagine being under US health and NOT informing someone they are off my cover. You are right - how does that fucker sleep at night.

I'd wait for him to offer to bargain for Mosely. I wouldn't raise it.

Keep us posted Tesla. Be gentle with yourself - this WILL end some day.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Holy fuck. This shit is going to end up epic.

He's fucking delusional.
Here is the text he sent me:

Would it be okay if we swap weekends. I'm gonna jump on this storm and try and make some money. I may be gone longer, you know how storms can be. But with the income it generates I should be able to give you and Teslet a little more than I owe.

Uh. Excuse me? Did that mother fucker say 'give'??? That asshole has stolen from me and he's stolen from his son. And what the fuck happened to the "I'll pay you the amount I owe when I get my tax return and bonus in early Feb."

Oh yeah, we all know what happened to that shit. When the money came in, there were more pressing concerns than his fucking obligations.
Pieceofshitmotherfucker. And FTG to boot.

ajsmom, he worked for a power company. It was a *very* good job. Great benefits. This year he should have been up to 3 weeks paid vacation plus personal days. Opportunity for as much overtime as he wanted. Now he will have to be a contractor and chase storms and jobs again. No personal/sick days. No paid vacation. That shit was miserable. He will still be paid well, but it's blood money.

Will I switch weekends with him? Yes, guidelines say if he gives reasonable notice that I should...but we are going by the letter of the guidelines. The mother fucking letter. He can have the next weekend as his make-up weekend. If he's still out of town...too fucking bad, it's forfeit.

And no, I cannot bring up Mosley. He has to bring him up...but I have a feeling after stripper whore has to spend 2-3 weeks home by herself with that dog, she may very well tell ex-shat to give him back to Teslet.

Wow.
Why couldn't he have just paid when he had the money?


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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Isn't there a pole Stipper can be dancing on? Besides his I mean. She's got to earn that pony somehow.

I imagine that her peroxide and hair spray budget alone calls for a second income.


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Frustrated  Posted: 6:20 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

I think I've reached the top of my WTF-ometer. I'm not at all surprised.

Still hiding behind that tree - his two brain cells have rubbed against each other and combusted.

I honestly don't think this is asshatery, he has lost his damn mind. Does he think these bullshit IOU's will hold up in court? That it means he won't be held in contempt?


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

The only reason I would not file the petition to modify support is *if* it ended up reducing Teslet's support because the court chooses to allow his income number to be zero since he lost his job.
I'll wait to file the petition until he has another job if that is the case.

But after a couple of pointed questions to my lawyer, I am confident that the circumstances of the loss of his income will come into play and the court will still hold him accountable for the income amount.

Wow. I'm pretty sure my ex and yours are the same person. My ex also lost his job because he's an idiot and he now threatening to reduce child support because he new job doesn't pay as much as the one he lost. My attorney said that a judge might reduce it but that he may not because it was his own fault. She said she would subpoena his employment record and tell the judge all about it. :)


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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Okay, I am pretty good at predicting how things like this go down, so here is my prediction:

Ex shat goes out chasing the storm to make money that he will never actually pay over to Tesla. While he is gone, Stripper whore gets lonely cause ya know, she only has herself to hang out with and she has been "abandoned" by ex shat, I give her 2 weeks before she has a special friend. Then, with Stripper whore gone and 2 CS orders looming, ex shat continues to work in self employment to avoid garnishing. He probably won't be around a lot after this. Oh and I predict Stripper whore calls Tesla to come get Mosley.


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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

He may not be able to get out of his obligation just because he doesn't have a job. The amount he is supposed to pay might not change either.

At my divorce, the judge told my ex not to quit his job for a job at McDonald's because he would still owe the same amount of money.

It really depends on the judge but I can't imagine any judge liking a deadbeat.


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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

I was thinking that, with his suspension and then fuckup being let go, he has missed mega, mega OT this winter and Mega, Mega $$$$$$. What a
Pieceofshitmotherfucker

It will be hard for him to chase those jobs from jail!

FTG!!


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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

I think you should be even more strategic with that Kraken.

I think his visitation should be supervised until he completes the mandated rehab, PLUS tests clean consistently for six months during SUPERVISED visitation, and he should never get to drive Teslet anywhere.

That ought to smack some stupid out of him.


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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Well he sure has created quite the pickle for himself, hmm?

I had a taste of this stress back in November when I heard the Dooosh wasn't working at his cushy govt job... The kind where you do a minimal amount of work and get paid reeeeally damn good money, lots of vacation time, and get to have a whore in the drawer as well!!

I don't have any details of his new job (even though the divorce decree clearly states he is legally required to tell me within 5 days... But hey who is counting?). I guess I am just glad he has a damn job!

I am sorry for the bullshit excuses he tries to use... Clearly the stripper-whore has sucked his brains right out.


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Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

It's bad enough they are lying, cheating pieces of shit, but when they are complete morons to boot? Man, that's frustrating.

I bet had exshat paid you $10 a couple times, he could have kept himself out of jail, but I have a feeling he is going in. And you know it's gonna be your fault if he goes to jail and can't work, right?

I get so confused how OW like the bitch in my case and StripperWhore put up with our exes losing their jobs. My STBX lost his second job too, and he's been working less than 20 hours a week at his first job. And of course I have to hear his bullshit excuses for not having money and not being able to pay child support or his half of extracurriculars. If he would get a real fucking job, that would be more money for him AND for our kids. How can he be such a lazy fuck? And now that he doesn't have my money to go spending on OW, I can't figure out her reason for sticking around. He's an abusive, mean little man, who lied to her and cheated on her too, and now he's also broke? What the hell does she see in him? Oh well, I guess they have to keep putting up with each other a while longer to justify destroying both of their marriages and families..


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2328 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, February 13th (Thursday)

Is he REALLY going to chase the storm to make $$ or is going to jail and doesn't want to tell you that's where he'll be, and why he can't take Teslet when he's supposed to?


Whatevs, he's a fucking moron either way.


Posts: 3419 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, February 13th (Thursday)

Honestly, I think he needs to trade to do a valentine's thing with stripper whore. But that jail letter should be showing up today or tomorrow.
Happy valentine's day from your ex-wife


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, February 13th (Thursday)

****Happy valentine's day from your ex-wife ****


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, February 13th (Thursday)

Awe Tesla, that Valentine is so sweet, wish I could give one just like it to my xWH. Oh well, maybe next year. Honestly, I figure the karma Valentine xWH ends up with will be specially made for him.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

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CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

Clearly the stripper-whore has sucked his brains right out.

Well, if she can suck a golf ball through a garden hose.....Ex-shat's brain can't be bigger than a golf ball.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1037 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
sudra
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

Well, if she can suck a golf ball through a garden hose.....Ex-shat's brain can't be bigger than a golf ball.


Me (BW) (55), Him(SAWH) (58)
Married 22 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

Happy valentine's day from your ex-wife


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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