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User Topic: Hahahahah! Yes, I really like having you blocked!
heartbroken_kk
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Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

So STBXWHNPDPAFTG is well, Passive Aggressive. You know, mostly passive but with a really nasty controlling and manipulative undertone to it....

He had some things that weren't mine but belonged to a non-profit I'm involved in and they needed the stuff, so I sent him a text asking if I could get it. A few texts to set up the meeting time and location, I suggest a couple places then "you decide time and place" so he chooses:

8:45am at <public place near his OW6/GFs>

I roll into parking area at 8:42. 8:45 he texts me "running 10 minutes late"

I text back "I'm on time and waiting"

This is textbook predictable. I'm the person who is honorable, keeps her word and sets up reliable appointments and meets expectations.... he is NOT.

Whatev!

I get the stuff then ask if he wants to be informed or participate in a certain project the non-profit is doing.

He whines "I seem to have been kicked off the lists, I never hear about anything anymore, are you still blocking me?"

I say "YES, I still have you blocked, but if you "like" non-profit on facebook you should receive notifications as I am not the one posting them"

"Are you going to keep me blocked?"

"YES, I am. It's better for me that way."
"Thanks for the stuff, bye"

Just a few more things NOT between us anymore.

I'm laughing a little as I really felt cut off and ripped off, when he shredded my world and I lost friends and connections in our community. Now he is feeling that way, and I don't give a shit. It's his responsibility to stay connected to the non-profit if he wants to. I'm not feeding him info any more. Too bad, so sad.


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1177 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
nekorb
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Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Nicely done.

Bonus points for maturity since you waited to start laughing until after you drove off.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

The best thing about blocking them on facebook is the little dialog that pops up and says, "We''re sorry you had this experience." I figure that''s the only apology I''ll get related to this whole thing - The Princess doesn''t do apologies.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1896 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
kg201
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Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

The best thing about blocking them on facebook is the little dialog that pops up and says, "We''re sorry you had this experience." I figure that''s the only apology I''ll get related to this whole thing - The Princess doesn''t do apologies.

Darn it all. If I had blocked my STBX instead of the other way around then I would have had an apology too. Missed my chance.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 691 | Registered: Aug 2013
nekorb
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Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Please, please tell me how to do this so I make sure I do it first. I'm basically FB illiterate.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
heartbroken_kk
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Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Here is facebook's help page on blocking someone:

https://www.facebook.com/help/?faq=168009843260943#How-do-I-block-someone?


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1177 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
SBB
Member
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

are you still blocking me?"

HE DID NOT SAY THAT?? Is he in his 40s?

Dude, show your dick some respect. Seriously.

The sad clown wouldn't have noticed I blocked him - he is FB illiterate. I wish you could block them IRL too. How awesome would that be? Invisible and mute and handovers and I to him.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5554 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
heartbroken_kk
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Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

I wish you could block them IRL too. How awesome would that be? Invisible and mute

oh SBB that is PRICELESS

Indeed it would be fucking awesome.

LA LA LA! I can't HEAR you!


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1177 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
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