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newlysingle
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Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

So I'm awaiting the plumber to do what will hopefully be the final work on our sewer line.....with the Gnat. He is paying for the repair and wanted to speak with the plumber regarding the work before he starts. The Gnat is also going to do a few small repairs for me while the plumber works. Of course the plumber is running late and we're forced to "hang out" until he gets here.

Ugh, once he starts the work, the Gnat is taking the kids home with him for the night. I have not had to spend this much time with him in ages. Hurry up plumber!

Just one more reason to sell the house soon. I don't want to do this again.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 819 | Registered: Mar 2013
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:44 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Strength to you, honey. ((((newlysingle))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24436 | Registered: Aug 2011
StillLivin
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Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

How did it go?


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2165 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
careerlady
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Member # 16958
Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

(((Newlysingle)))
sucks. At least he''s being helpful. The Snake might deign to supervise/question the plumber but wouldn''t do stuff around the house. Far too lazy...


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 935 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
newlysingle
Member
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

I am grateful that he wasn't a dick about this. He also agreed in the divorce decree to help with the repairs around the house. He's very hand and can fix almost anything. It's probably the only thing I miss about having him around.

The funny thing is that he was really agitated while he was here and I don't know why. It had nothing to do with me. We were fine and cordial with one another. It could have been an issue with work or a problem in unicorn fartland.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 819 | Registered: Mar 2013
h0peless
Member
Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)

Getting out of the house was such a relief for me. Even living with my Mom was better than being in OUR house after she left. It was even worse when she was there.

keep your chin up. it will get better.


Posts: 1575 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
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