SurvivingInfidelity.com Forums
Reconciliation
User Topic: when will i ever feel better
Roxyme765
New Member
Member # 41764
Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, February 13th (Thursday)

i moved back in with my WS end of january 2014. i know the rollercoaster lasts a while, i know we all want to get off and have to just work through it. when will i ever feel better? i feel like i am forcing myself to be affectionate. i keep telling myself to be positive and really give it 100% this time. i found out in april, back then i was trying but he wasnt - moved out in august - he was trying and i wasnt. now we are both giving it 100%. we have put ourselves in a bubble and are trying to just focus on our marriage and getting rid of any negative influences. i just dont know whats right. i am trying so hard to be positive and make it work. i just dont know if it is the right thing


Me: BS, 30
Him: WS, 30
D-Day: April 2013 (about 5 years of cheating with multiple OW)
2 or 3? false R.
DIVORCED! 07/2014!!

Posts: 26 | Registered: Dec 2013
deena04
Member
Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

I wish I could answer that with a definite time, but I really can't answer it. I hope for all the best for you both.


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 1066 | Registered: Dec 2013
Topic Posts: 2