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User Topic: V Day, change of heart
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

I could feel myself sinking into a pretty bad mood these last few days, dreading Valentine's Day, getting sad and mad all over again and feeling incredibly lonely. I take my boys to school tomorrow morning, and POS is picking them up and keeping them until Saturday, so I've been sad I won't even have them on Valentine's Day. I was texting with my friend today, and I asked what he's doing tomorrow. I told him I was planning to gather some weapons and destroy as many Valentine's Day displays as I could find.

I haven't been feeling too great either, so my mom offered to take the boys out to get some extra supplies for the V-Day cards they are making for their classmates. And what do they come home with? DS10 walks in with white roses with a styrofoam pink heart in the middle and hands it to me with a kiss. And the cutest card. And then DS6 walks in with a heart balloon that says Happy Valentine's Day on it (DS6 loves balloons). My cold, dead, shell of a heart just melted with love. I will have to make some new plans for tomorrow. I don't feel like destroying anything anymore


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2230 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
gypsybird87
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Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

Awww, what a great surprise!

That is awesome. So happy for you!


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 804 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

Awwwww!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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jackie89
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Member # 38271
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

Awww! That just made me cry!
There! Proof that you are a great mom and so loved by your boys!

What more could a girl want?
Have a great day tomorrow!


Separated/divorcing

"The Secret of Change is to focus all your energy - not on fighting the old, but on building the new" ~~Lori Greiner FB post~~


Posts: 477 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
kg201
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Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

Sweet.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

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heartbroken_kk
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Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

they luvs you! <3


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
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Harriet
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Member # 34543
Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, February 14th (Friday)

Your mom is pretty awesome, too!


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

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