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Chippednotbroken
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Member # 40170
Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, February 14th (Friday)

I filed and he was served Tuesday. He wants me to go to MC today. I feel like I'm still in crazy town. He just makes me angry. Why on earth would I want to go to MC? In my mind I haven't been married for a long time. He says he can't even think of dating. He had a LTA while I was pregnant.
Crazy town and he is the mayor.


Me BS 32
DDay July 13'
3 young kids

Posts: 300 | Registered: Aug 2013
devistatedmom
Member
Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, February 14th (Friday)

Ignore. Crickets. NC. Whatever you want to call it...NO WAY!!!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5405 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, February 14th (Friday)

Crickets.
He's nervous now that he's been served and is trying to hoover you back in.

No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6278 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
dmari
Member
Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, February 14th (Friday)

No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.

Crickets ...


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2138 | Registered: Oct 2012
Chippednotbroken
Member
Member # 40170
Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, February 14th (Friday)

Yeah you all will love this, I ended up going. It was his counselor who asked him why he had me there. Then proceeded to tell him to leave me alone, stop texting me and move on with his life. It was actually kind of nice. Don't think it worked but hey whatever.


Me BS 32
DDay July 13'
3 young kids

Posts: 300 | Registered: Aug 2013
devistatedmom
Member
Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, February 14th (Friday)

I hope it helped you feel better about your decision. Now, NC him. If his IC sees it and is saying it, he isn't doing the work he needs to do to be a proper husband to you.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5405 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Chippednotbroken
Member
Member # 40170
Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, February 14th (Friday)

Yep right back to crickets. It was just nice to hear someone else tell him that there is no reason for me to be with him and that he needs to focus on himself and let me heal.
He of course texted me a few hours later that he has a gift for me so it seems he still isn't paying attention.


Me BS 32
DDay July 13'
3 young kids

Posts: 300 | Registered: Aug 2013
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