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User Topic: The best part of VD is I got my date!
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, February 14th (Friday)

Court date, that is!!

One minute before entering my therapist office, I check my email on my phone. I read an email from my attorney that said our court date is on May 29!! I walked into her office and screamed with relief and joy that it will soon be officially over.

The timing (although it took long enough) is perfect. It's after my spring semester and before my birthday in June! I am so grateful and excited.

Emotionally I am done done done done done done with stbx. The court will hopefully enforce financial obligations regarding the kids. This is the part I am looking forward to. I need him to be financially accountable to the kids and if he is not, then at least I can follow with contempt.

This is a true gift of love to myself ~ my future, my life, my freedom!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2233 | Registered: Oct 2012
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, February 14th (Friday)

Yay!!!! What a great Vday present!!!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4560 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, February 14th (Friday)


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25499 | Registered: Aug 2011
devistatedmom
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Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, February 14th (Friday)

Happy for you Dmari!!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5513 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Sparkles
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Member # 39901
Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, February 14th (Friday)

That's good news! It's a nice feeling when you take a step forward.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: In a better place
jackie89
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Member # 38271
Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, February 14th (Friday)

Soo jealous!

Can't wait until this day comes!


Separated/divorcing

"The Secret of Change is to focus all your energy - not on fighting the old, but on building the new" ~~Lori Greiner FB post~~


Posts: 489 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Chippednotbroken
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Member # 40170
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, February 14th (Friday)

April14th for me, although if he won't agree to something's I guess it could take longer.


Me BS 32
DDay July 13'
3 young kids

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