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Midas
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Member # 22832
Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, February 17th (Monday)

Just found out tonight that who I thought was OM#1, was actually OM#2. So now there have been three affairs during our 17 year marriage. Also she cheated on me when we dated in high-school with four other boys, for a total of seven affairs during our relationship.

[This message edited by Midas at 11:12 PM, February 17th (Monday)]


Midas
Me - 37 (BS)
Her - 36 (STBXWW)

OM#1-4 Dday 2/17/2014 pre-marriage
OM#5 - Dday 2/17/2014 <new info>
OM#6 - Dday 4/30/2006
OM#7 - Dday 1/29/2014

DD - 6yo

Filed for D 2/10/2014
D 4/2014
False R 6/2014
ILYBINILWY 10/2014


Posts: 106 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Austin, Texas
Dreamland
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Member # 40488
Default  Posted: 2:33 AM, February 18th (Tuesday)

So so sorry. Glad your kicking her out. You deserve more.. If he just looks at one other woman he's out dying or not


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
shiloe
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Member # 1224
Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, February 18th (Tuesday)

Wow Midas. So sorry. Just know you didn't do any wrong and didn't deserve such treatment.

She's a piece of work

You need to go NC as much as you can.


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with yet another married ho-worker. Kicked h

Posts: 621 | Registered: Mar 2003
Uhtred
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Member # 40392
Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, February 18th (Tuesday)

I sure hate to hear that man. Stay strong and steadfast and you'll get there.


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 617 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
numb&dumb
Member
Member # 28542
Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, February 18th (Tuesday)

Read your profile man so sorry. Let her go, you will be much happier in the long rum.

FWIW- if you don't plan on it, sue for full custody and make a point to bring before the court all the sorts of people she has been dating. Protect your daughter. Not introducing romantic partners for X number of years is something that can be written into the D.


Me-35 her-35

DS 1, DD 6
Dday 8/31/11. ONS that occurred 3 years earlier. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.


Posts: 2568 | Registered: May 2010
norabird
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Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, February 18th (Tuesday)

Hard to find a silver lining amidst the pain, but at least this knowledge helps give you even more clarity as to who she really is. And that can be a blessing in its own way.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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