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User Topic: How does WS see the BS?
ChloeandPrimo
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Stop  Posted: 1:45 AM, February 20th (Thursday)

I would like help from the WSs out there. My DD was 1/1/14.

What does a WS think of the BS when they seek others to be intimate with? I can only imagine my husband must have told himself vile things about me. He must see me as so gross that another person he doesn't know is preferable. (And these were NOT good looking people. I am considered fairly nice looking.) So what is/was so gross about your BS that you sought out others? Then when I think about the sex we had, I can't imagine that it was actually making love. I think it was just some friction to satisfy him. He must have had so little respect for me that he turned me into a short stop between anonymous sex partners. I hope someone can begin to explain this to me.


Apparently I'm Boring
DD 1/1/14 Happy New Year!
Me: 54
WH: 54
Married 8 yrs
Adult step kids
Great Counselor
May reconcile
His affairs: 8 both Men and women
I see light at end of tunnel, may just be hell fires, however.

Posts: 28 | Registered: Jan 2014
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 2:34 AM, February 20th (Thursday)

I'd like to answer you but you will have to post it on the 'BS questions for WS' in the I can relate forum. BS aren't allowed to ask questions in here.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1253 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
authenticnow
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Red  Posted: 6:08 AM, February 20th (Thursday)

BrokenButTrying is correct. BSs aren't allowed to start threads in the Wayward forum. Please post in ICR Questions for Waywards.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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