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yestopants
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Member # 41631
Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

He picked picked up the CS and custody papers!!! He texted me this morning about the kids dentist bill (he didn't know how to divide by 2 or what total meant). Obviously fishing... I took the opportunity to ask about the papers....He was just waiting for me to ask so he could ask how to do them.... I instructed him how to get the affidavit back (yes ridiculous). That paper is so important to me, I want SOLE custody. Now that he has sent it I am one step closer and that feels good.
His texts were really pathetic lots of thanks for that, and long winded. I was giving one word answers or business sentences nothing more. Some stuff I ignored completely. I feel good about that
Wonder how good he really feels? He's probably just putting a pity party show on....well fuck him Today it didn't work! That paper is all I need from him, he can fail at everything else from here on in he's been served YIPPEE!! Thanks all for hearing me out...this was killing me.


Me: 35
STBXWH: 38
2 amazing kids DS DD
almost Divorced!

Posts: 282 | Registered: Dec 2013
mof2
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Member # 40287
Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

It's amazing to me that we still have to wipe their asses until the end. My ex was a lazy tard and I am now getting collection notices and notices of warrants for his arrest. Their guilt is so deep that they will do anything to try to escape from it. My ex gave me EVERYTHING and cried like a baby as he was walking out. Idiots!

Keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep in your head "I deserve better"!!!!


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
Lola7
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Member # 41195
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

Hooray and fuck him!!


caelitus mihi vires
"My strength is from heaven"
DIVORCED!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Nov 2013
HurtsButImOK
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Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

Yay!

Another rung up the ladder out of the pit of hell and towards freedom.

I too did what was necessary in guiding x through to achieve my ultimate goal of freedom. Upside to that was witnessing first hand his useless patheticness.


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 728 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
yestopants
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Member # 41631
Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

Its crazy but this is the happiest I've been since DD. I'm thankful that I will get 100% custody...He has done so much damage to my "beans" and doesn't see it. Thanks for the cheering! I'm going to enjoy the peace I have today...I wish I could hold on to it. Someday.

mof2-

It's amazing to me that we still have to wipe their asses until the end

^^yup, but I got what I wanted today and it was worth it this time.

FUCK HIM! today that was said with a smile instead of tears!


Me: 35
STBXWH: 38
2 amazing kids DS DD
almost Divorced!

Posts: 282 | Registered: Dec 2013
mof2
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Member # 40287
Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

I am so happy for you!!! Keep smiling!!!! It is only going to get better for you as time goes on and he is out of your life!!!


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
careerlady
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Member # 16958
Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, February 21st (Friday)

So happy for you! Will he visit at all or what''s the plan?


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 937 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
yestopants
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Member # 41631
Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, February 21st (Friday)

careerlady-The sad thing is I don't know if he will visit... He's told the kids summer but I'm not expecting much that way. I am not sure he can afford to??? I don't get much information from him as to his plans. I don't think he knows what he is doing.


Me: 35
STBXWH: 38
2 amazing kids DS DD
almost Divorced!

Posts: 282 | Registered: Dec 2013
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