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kg201
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Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

Was driving my daughter to an appointment today and saw the OM entering his office. Note: the office is a block from my house and is the office he has shared with my STBX for the last 5 years.

After DDay I had visions of confronting him on the sidewalk. Or walking back and forth with a huge billboard saying something about how adulterers work inside.

Today I could only think to myself, "what a big ass he has." Is there a man version of mom-jeans? Felt sorry for my X, for a split second, that she is sidling up to that. Oh well.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 649 | Registered: Aug 2013
Thefly559
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Member # 40268
Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

Good for you brother. Stay strong Hopefully I catch up to you one day. Not today though


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 622 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

Felt sorry for my X, for a split second, that she is sidling up to that. Oh well.

Awesome.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2682 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
newlysingle
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Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

Man version of mom jeans!


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 870 | Registered: Mar 2013
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, February 20th (Thursday)

Well done, kg.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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