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User Topic: Adrenaline over and reality setting in
roarlouder
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Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, February 21st (Friday)

Yesterday I signed everything. Now all we do is wait for the D to be final. I have told friends and coworkers since-about 8 people.

My new realtor called yesterday about a house about to be listed that had everything on my list. It's perfect, reminds me if my grandparents' place. Offer accepted late last night (what a day)

I feel like the house was a sign...keep going, you're headed the right way. I am exhausted, and I just feel so sad. Maybe it's all sinking in now?

First day NC with him too.


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
Gemini71
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Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, February 21st (Friday)

The thing about those adrenaline highs is that the crash usually follows.

You are absolutely right that you are going in the right direction. Congratulations on your new home. Have fun planning and decorating for your new life!


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1560 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
roarlouder
Member
Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, February 21st (Friday)

A few things to deal with until the house deal us final.

It's ok to take a night to be sad, feel sorry for myself and cry right?


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
Gemini71
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Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, February 21st (Friday)

Absolutely. It's not only okay, it's healthy and necessary.

((roarlouder))


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1560 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
movingforward13
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Member # 38405
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, February 21st (Friday)

Hugs, you are headed the right way.


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 636 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
Topic Posts: 5