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Softcentre
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Default  Posted: 5:53 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Like Leia, The Arse accused me of breaking my vows to him. Well these are the vows I made:


N, will you take N to be your husband?
Will you love him, comfort him, honour and protect him,
and, forsaking all others,
be faithful to him as long as you both shall live? I will

I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish from this day forward until death do us part.

Nope, didn''t break them...ok, I wasn''t perfect at the cherishing and honouring 24/7, but I worked at it and kept checking that we were ok. The cherishing & honouring got a bit knocked here and there, but not broken.

Let''s see how The Arse did:


N, will you take N to be your wife?
Will you love her, comfort her, honour and protect her,
and, forsaking all others,

be faithful to her as long as you both shall live?

I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish from this day forward until death do us part.

Ok, right...Yup the Arse has broken the ones in bold

Many of them AFTER dday1 as well.

Interestingly, though,there was no vow of honesty and emotional openness. Seems a bit lacking?


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 996 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
Leia
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Member # 42510
Default  Posted: 6:18 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Yep. That's why I knew the moment I found the texts that my marriage was over. STBWXH looked dumbfounded that I just sighed at him and told him that we were done. I think he might have been looking for the drama of reconciliation. No matter how hard D is, I don't want to live with someone who thinks the promises we made in his church before his higher being of choice, our friends, and our family, was a silly reason to work on our marriage. He actually said that to me while the A was going on, before I found out about it. People keep telling me that the Karma Bus is going to come around, and I just hope one day he is as devastated as he devastated me.


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

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