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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Do you sometimes wonder how much more you can really take????

I'm at a breaking point at the moment I think...

In the grand scheme to an outsider I'm sure it doesn't seem like a lot, but damn. Come on can I please get a break, and some good news for a change?


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8229 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)

I completely understand, honey. Sending you strength and positive mojo for a well-earned break.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25050 | Registered: Aug 2011
Pentup
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Member # 20563
Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Prayers for peace coming your way


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6545 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

((tushnurse))

sometimes a slow steady stream of negative just wears you out. Even if it doesn't look big to the outside it feels huge to you and that's what matters. hang in there. We're here for venting if you need to!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

(((tush)))

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tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

thanks you all are awesome.

I think I am going to go home and just pull the covers over my head this afternoon. Maybe tomorrow will shed a different light on my world.

Yes sometimes it's the constant steady stream of minor things that gets to us, but here of late it's a constant stream of bigger issues, and a lack of warmth, and sunshine.

Gonna double up on my Vitamin D, sleep for 10 hours, and hope that changes my life....The sucky part is it's all out of my control. I'm a fixer, and if I can't fix it, it makes me crazy.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8229 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Right there with you tushnurse. Just treading water right now and I took a huge gulp today. It could be worse. I just keep saying that to myself. It could be worse.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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Undefinabl3
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Member # 36883
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

I have been on here many times when i have felt like the world is crashing in. You are not alone.

Hang in there.


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Keep swimming...keep swimming.

Get some rest. I'm usually at my very worst when I'm overtired.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

(((Tush)))


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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