Things with bf are great. I dont really get triggers as often. But I get them from time to time. I have to tell myself his words match his actions. Son is getting testing done gor autism in a few weeks hes been there every step of the way. He even asked if he could come to the appointment to get a better understanding. Bf family has accepted me with open arms. They are being a great support system. Bf step mom has a lot of knowledge with dealing with an autistic kid. So shes been helping us with ways to help son and what's going on.
Bf also has ambition. There is a job opening in his department for a supervisor. Hes applying for it. Ive been helping him get his package ready. He actually let me help.
I am finally getting cs from sons dad. But how long will it last. Its kind of funny how I opened a case in his state and a few months later I get cs payments.
Bf and I are starting to look at places to live.
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better4me Member Member # 30341
Posted: 10:49 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)
Posts like yours make me all warm inside. Good for you to be counting your blessings like that!
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InnerLight Member Member # 19946
Posted: 10:53 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)
happy for youBS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.
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Crescita Member Member # 32616
Posted: 11:35 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)
Glad things are looking up “Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Posts: 3459 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun