User Topic: He is texting, calling, hoovering today
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

and I don't care!!!!!! Woohooo. Is this what indifference feels like?
Put it in a bottle and take 3X a day with meals!
Love it.

I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2335 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

I'll have some of what you're drinking please.

Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.

Posts: 1866 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Isn't it a grand feeling? XPOS contacts me regularly, I ignore regularly until I feel like responding on my terms, and none of it affects me in any way. It is truly Nirvana! Enjoy!

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Pass it around, please!

Awesome for you StillLivin!!!

Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2271 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

I'm awaiting the indifference ... still pisses me off ... no affection is left, now he just makes me wanna

Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Sometimes I wish the Gnat would try to Hoover me just so I could be smug when I ignore him. He never does though. I guess I should be happy about that.

Good for your girl. Give him those crickets!

BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 924 | Registered: Mar 2013
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Right after Dr Jekyll comes Mr Hyde - buckle up, grab some popcorn and watch a movie whilst he puts on his little show.

these days I don't care which face I get. I ignore them both.

Absolutely no response from you - give him those skinny little crickets.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 2:08 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Indifference is a gift. The lifting of a great weight.

D final 8/2012

Posts: 4000 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 9:32 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Gemini71 & dmari, come to my place and we can toast with some good wine!
Phoenix1, It sure is a great feeling. I just pray it lasts. But I am just too damn busy to give him the energy it would take to be either sad, mad, or anything else.
BAB61, You will get there! Promise!
SBB, Like I said above, I'm just too busy with life and improving myself. Let him throw whatever BS he wants. Not my problem anymore, and I'm smarter than him, nah nah nah neh naaaaahhhhhh!
Brandon808, Amen!
Newlysingle, Sweetie, you have no idea what a gift it is that he is such a coward he won't even face you. Maybe, just maybe, he actually feels a little teensy tiny wee bit'o'shame. Gnat is a coward amongst cowards. It is a blessing that he isn't bothering you YET. Even the most cowardly realize and start hoovering. By the time that happens, you will be healed. You are beautiful, smart, kind, and just amazing. Don't YOU forget that. Be smug in the fact that he wouldn't DARE piss you off! Wish mine had been that timid, but he needed a few verbal knock down drag out fights, then a tussle with the attorney, and then he had a plague of cricket/locusts swarming. They are all just screw ups!
(((Hugs))) to all the brave soldiers that fought the infidelity wars and persevered!!!!!

[This message edited by StillLivin at 9:33 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)]

I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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