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User Topic: Finally ready to divorce
renee21
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Member # 27088
Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, February 25th (Tuesday)

Been a long time since I posted. We've been separated for 4 months, but this limbo hell has dragged on for about 8. He met a whore at the youth football organization that we run. I saw it from a mile away. Long story short, he took the bait and has ripped our lives apart. I finally got confirmation of things I needed to make me put my bitch boots on and file. I found out that he's been living there and lying to me, our kids, his own family. And to top it off the whore came back out to our organization so her kids could play ball there again this season. My 16 year old and 9 year old know who she is and that dad didn't have the decency to keep her away. Payback .is a bitch though, she was stupid enough to post Facebook pictures of the two of them and our board members got ahold of them, so not only are they going to tell her to leave, they are going to tell him to follow his whore out too. I am so relieved, its like a ton of bricks has been lifted off of me. The two idiots have to leave and me and my kids get to stay and be in peace. I haven't even cried since I found out, I now know about that point of being done. I can't get to the attorney fast enough.


BW(me) 36
WH-36 SA
Three kids 18, 16 and 9
Married 18 years.
Multiple D-Days, multiple OW and an OC
12/19/03,5/13/2004,12/5/2009, 2/20/2014
I am no longer a guest on the Jerry Springer Show.

Posts: 1327 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Florida
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 1:01 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Payback .is a bitch though, she was stupid enough to post Facebook pictures of the two of them and our board members got ahold of them, so not only are they going to tell her to leave, they are going to tell him to follow his whore out too.
I think it is wonderful that they are going to ask both of them to leave! The kids and you will feel safe and I can't stress the importance of having that feeling!

Good luck with the attorney!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2270 | Registered: Oct 2012
stronger08
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Member # 16953
Default  Posted: 1:54 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Good for you. Its a great feeling when you finally get to the point of no return with a WS. I remember signing the final agreement and petition for D. I went into my attorneys office nervous as hell for some reason. But when I left I just sat in my car, took a very deep breath and felt the weight of the world just disappear from my shoulders. By the time the official documents came back signed by a judge many months later it was very anticlimactic for me. I thought I would have jumped for joy, but by that time I was like "Good I'm D" Like I was getting a tax return or something, very routine and business like. My real relief came with signing the final petition. I wish you peace and healing my friend.


You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

Posts: 5721 | Registered: Nov 2007
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Good to see you, renee. It's amazing when that switch flips, isn't it? All doubt is removed and the path becomes clear.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25717 | Registered: Aug 2011
sparkysable
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Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

I think it's great that people are so supportive of you! I wish more people were like that. My experience has been that most people stuck their heads in the sand saying they "didn't want to get in the middle" or "didn't want to have to choose sides".


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3391 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
RealityStinks
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Member # 41457
Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

@ renee21 -
I'm glad you've come to a decision you're "good" with. And, I am so happy that your WH and his ho are being asked to leave. That just adds to what little "faith in humanity" I have left! STBX and her limp dick serve on the a board for a children's organization. I would LOVE IT if they were told to hit the road.

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