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Kelany
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

30 days today for me.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

That's wonderful, samantha!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25508 | Registered: Aug 2011
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

WTG Samantha


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52324 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)


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pmal64
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Member # 13551
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, February 26th (Wednesday)

congratulations! way to go!


.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-50
fWH -54

Posts: 573 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
HFSSC
Member
Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

30 days and three thousand nights.

(((Samantha)))

Keep it up!


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2747 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Congrats!!!!

Posts: 35393 | Registered: Mar 2011
looking forward
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Member # 25238
Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Congratulations!
It's worth it!


~ lf


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2841 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Woo Hoo!!

Congrats!!!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21056 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
SoVerySadNow
Member
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

congrats!!!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
tushnurse
Member
Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

You go Girl!!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8594 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Kelany
Member
Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Thanks guys. I'd only been drinking since dday#2 (not an excuse, it was a choice) and I'd progressively spiraled out of control and was binging. Waking up in a hospital with no memory and over .300 bac? Yeah, that was bottom.

I'm much happier, I'm thinking clearer, I'm not puking all the time, and I feel better.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Good job!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37750 | Registered: Sep 2007
RidingHealingRd
Member
Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

That's great! I wish you continued success.

My WH stopped drinking on Dday 3+ years ago.


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


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