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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

I was just told that I look "great" lately. "You look really well, too. Do you feel really well, too?"

Yes, I do!! I feel REALLY GREAT!! Maybe it has to do with the walking and eating better as I said in NIK's thread, or maybe it's just that I'm soooo happy! I'm very lucky to be in a place where I can be. Great opportunities and loving people surround me. I plan to take those opportunities while I can, because it could come to an end.

Happy is a great place to be!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

I've got that stupid song in my head now but I'll spare everyone.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52556 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Ok, Moo, I feel really dumb. I have no idea what song you mean. Maybe about 2 am it will come to me........


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6Sxv-sUYtM

Happy by Pharrell Williams


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52556 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

OOOOooooohhhh! Thanks, Moo - that's about it!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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Harriet
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Member # 34543
Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)

Which, by the way, MOO, isn't nearly a trigger for me like it used to be! TYVM!


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 490 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
sparkysable
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Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, February 27th (Thursday)

Good for you! You are finally living the life you deserve to live. You suffered under that piece of shit and his abusive ways for years, it's about time that you get to do things that make YOU happy, instead of tip-toeing around him and his moods, trying to make HIM happy.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3385 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
thebighurt
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Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, February 27th (Thursday)

Thank you, SS. My IC finally got through to me in the last year. I finally realize how much of me was lost in that M. I'm beginning to find her again. She's someone who is honest, kind, considerate, loving, caring, a good friend, and......... now......... Happy!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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