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ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, February 27th (Thursday)

It's actually kind of funny that XWW cares so much about whether I want to be her friend. In a gee, actions have consequences, sort of way.

We were doing a parent teacher conference (which was fine, nothing weird, all business), and afterwards as we walked out to the cars she said "Do you just need space? Please just say yes if that's the case." and I said "Uh, sure, yeah." (I mean, that's one way of putting it. I need space. Forever.)


Me: born 1982.
DD: born 2006 (I have abt 80% custody).
My D-Day was April 2012. Divorced Jul 2013.

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Harriet
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, February 27th (Thursday)

I like that feeling, too. It's not quite karma, but it's good.


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 383 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, February 28th (Friday)

that's one way of putting it. I need space. Forever.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13553 | Registered: Jul 2011
thyme2go
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Member # 12908
Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, February 28th (Friday)

She is married now, right?


BH - no longer 48
3 DD's - (27, 24 and 17)
Divorced on 8/6/09

Posts: 9174 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Eastern Washington
ProbableIceCream
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Member # 37468
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Yep, she's married. She got married to OP two months after the divorce finalized.


Me: born 1982.
DD: born 2006 (I have abt 80% custody).
My D-Day was April 2012. Divorced Jul 2013.

Posts: 676 | Registered: Nov 2012
ProbableIceCream
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Member # 37468
Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, March 1st (Saturday)

...and today she texted me with a routine question about DD, which I responded to (after about an hour.. I don't carry my phone with me everywhere if DD is with me).

Then she immediately asked a completely unrelated question, which I ignored.


Me: born 1982.
DD: born 2006 (I have abt 80% custody).
My D-Day was April 2012. Divorced Jul 2013.

Posts: 676 | Registered: Nov 2012
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, March 1st (Saturday)

Somebody's begging for attention...


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total
DD(21) & DS(18, PDD-NOS) (from 1st marriage)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

The First Cheater:
WXH (serial cheater, multiple OW)
Married 18yrs

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Posts: 6034 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
ProbableIceCream
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Member # 37468
Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, March 1st (Saturday)

I'm not surprised! Attention from me is very addictive.


Me: born 1982.
DD: born 2006 (I have abt 80% custody).
My D-Day was April 2012. Divorced Jul 2013.

Posts: 676 | Registered: Nov 2012
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 12:30 AM, March 2nd (Sunday)

I mean, that's one way of putting it. I need space. Forever.

Friends??? Fuck me, what would she have done if she wanted to be your enemy???


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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