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ajsmom
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Cool  Posted: 8:22 AM, February 28th (Friday)



AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21048 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
nutmegkitty
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Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, February 28th (Friday)


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
StillLivin
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Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, February 28th (Friday)


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2230 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Ready_to_run
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Member # 20954
Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, February 28th (Friday)


BH
Divorced


Posts: 750 | Registered: Sep 2008
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, February 28th (Friday)

And then seeing Ready to Run's post...


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13729 | Registered: Jul 2011
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, February 28th (Friday)


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5061 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
whatdoto
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Member # 28555
Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, February 28th (Friday)


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
MovingUpward
Guide
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, February 28th (Friday)

I better change my O.L.D. profile to look for a woman in her 60's


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52112 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
cayc
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Member # 21964
Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, February 28th (Friday)

Not to be a party pooper but the other commonality? These 3 women are all wealthy & famous beyond our wildest imagination. I wonder if that has something to do with it?


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3074 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Yeah, this ^^^ ; p However, my former handyman was married to a woman 25 years his senior and they were still madly in love after many decades together, so it does happen.

I have a FB friend, a somewhat famous musician a little older than me who I knew back in the day.

Back then he was on his first wife and kids and meeting his jailbait GF at the studio where it was pretty much guaranteed that nobody would talk.

He's put up pics of himself with kids that I assumed they were his grandchildren.

He just posted about some paintings his "beautiful wife" is working on.

Not sure what Wife# she is but I did the math on her and she was not born the year he was collecting awards for his first album.

He always did like 'em younger...

[This message edited by FaithFool at 4:49 PM, February 28th (Friday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17378 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
curiouswiz
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Member # 34405
Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, March 1st (Saturday)

So...I shouldn't giggle at the thought of a man in his early 30's hitting on my 60 year old arse???

Seriously?

ahahahahaaha ooops, sorry. Think I'll run to match.com and hit on the babies, I mean men..


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
k94ever
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Member # 11176
Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, March 1st (Saturday)

Damn......just when I was getting used to the fact I will be single for the rest of my life you threw this at me.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6533 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, March 1st (Saturday)


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3122 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, March 1st (Saturday)


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4503 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
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